I'm about 2 weeks in myself, and I expect it to be at least several more weeks before I can be "reliable" for my gf. Not knowing your full story and how much damage is done, I am sure what you are experiencing is normal. I'm the same. The feeling is there, but not the erection a lot of times. I find I have the most successful daytime erections when I'm not even thinking about myself. From what I have gathered, getting hard at night isn't quite the same as getting hard from other triggers. Try to be patient and give it more time. BB