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Porn Addiction / An Inspiring before and after porn addiction story
« on: December 04, 2017, 09:18:34 PM »
This an awesome video by my fiance's counselor who has a deep understanding of PMO addiction and is probably one of the most experiential guys I've heard talk about PMO - this is too good to not share here.
Quick background- I  was referred to this forum from another one a year ago when I found out that my boyfriend (now fiance thanks to counseling) of 6 years had been hiding his addiction from me-anyway, there wasnt much support here for women, so we joined RebootNation which has been helpful for him

Women / Re: Fiance was A Secret Addict for Years
« on: May 24, 2017, 02:08:23 PM »
Excuse the late reply! I just wanted to say thank you. We both read the book love you hate the porn recommended my @cuppatea. My fiance declined to join the forum, but fortunately, we did begin getting counseling through a recovery coach jk emezi at elevated recovery. He's been off porn 5 months already (with one minor slip) and I've learned to cope with the trauma better.
  Trust is still taking a while to rebuild, but I have faith that we can fix this. Thank you for the kind words @aquarius25

I'll see if I can coax him into joining the forum

Women / Fiance was A Secret Addict for Years
« on: November 25, 2016, 11:03:55 PM »
Hey! Great to be part of this group! I just found out a few weeks ago that my fiance is a porn addict. This has been so devastating- I've been sitting with this and trying to be present for weeks, but it is eating me up inside. Everyday I'm aware of so much pain and distrust inside me..I'm hurt because I love him, but I JUST CANT trust him anymore and its killing me. I'm not a social media person(to my detriment) because he had some secrets there as well- you have no idea how relieved I am to find a group of ladies who are going through this- There is so much I want to let out, but I read the rules of the group and I dont want to trigger anyone.
I had caught him watching porn before, and was slightly worried, but I didnt confront him until until my friend recommended this video and it pretty much confirmed my suspicions-anyone heard of him?
I'm just glad I'm not alone in this. I'm looking for any kind of resource that can help me handle this- its pretty rough.Any suggestions?

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