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Porn Addiction / Adictos en español
« on: January 12, 2017, 01:52:36 PM »
Buenas tardes a todos,

desconozco si ya hay abierto algún tema como este en español. He decido abrirlo para aquellos hispanohablantes que no hablan inglés o a los que les resulta más difícil expresarse en esa lengua.

Hablando en nuestro idioma natal nos resulta más fácil expresar lo que sentimos y todo nos suena más real, menos forzado.

Les cuento mi historia muy resumida ya que todas son similares.

Tengo 30 años, hace 2 que fui consciente de mi problema, aunque sufro de dificultades para mantener una erección en pareja desde los 19 años.

Pasé por una etapa en que el porno era mi vida, dejaba de ir a clase, llegaba tarde al trabajo y a citas con amigos por estarme masturbando. Lo hacía de media 3 veces al día.

Después pasé a hacerlo solo una vez al día, acabé mis estudios, conseguí un buen trabajo y actualmente tengo pareja desde hace más de un año. Pero la dicción sigue ahí.

Cuanto más consciente soy de ella, parece que más difícil me resulta dejarlo. Ahora he vuelto a una vez al día, lo que me parece muchísimo. Desearía no volver a sentir esta estúpida necesidad.

Espero que nos podamos ayudar poco a poco.

Hoy quiero comenzar de 0.

Mucha suerte compañeros.

Hello rebooters.

I am on my day 20. I have PIED since I was 30. I am currently in a relationship for more than a year.

-I have some questions for you. How do you deal with a reboot while being in a relationship?

-Does your partner know about the addiction?

I am worried because I feel like I am going to be abandoned all the time because of my PIED

Hello guys.

I would like to tell you about how I have ignored my problem for so many years.
I am 29 and I have PIED since I was 19, or at least that was the first time I noticed it with a partner. At that time I just thought that person didn`t atract me enough to get hard. So I decided to not see people for some time and just masturbate, I wasn´t really interested in having a partner. The problem was that I completely ignored my ED...I though it couldn't be possible to have an ED being only 19.

After some other really bad experiences with sex(couldn`t maintain the erection for more than 2 o 3 minutes)...I became more adicted to porn...and pictures. My obsession was not normal and I knew it, but I was happy spending hours watching pictures and saving them in my computer while touching myself...I could do it 3 or 4 times every day...for years. I also got obsessed with spying people(something really weird, I know). Everytime I was sad, tired, stressed or bored I masturbated...I went to bed to late watching times I just didn't go to class.

It was two years ago that I decided to pay attention to my problem because I felt really atracted to someone in all senses and I wanted it to work...but I found a big problem on the way...PIED. I couldn´t get an erection without thinking about porn or dirty pictures. The relationship failed because of my insecurities...I got depressed...and that led me to compulsive masturbation...I was a 27 year old adult masturbating 3 times a day. I masturbated even with my penis not erected until I came.

Now I am seeing someone...I quited porn two weeks ago...but my penis is dead. I don´t have morning woods...I don´t feel anything. Yesterday we "had sex"...and my penis was completely soft while doing me a blowjob. It was emabrrasing...I had to start shaking it hard...but it lasted hard for a minute.

I have ruined my sexual life...and also my possibilities to get a real partner.

I would like to know if it is possible to recover from this. Anyone my age that has overcome this? I have spent like 15 years watching porn and I feel useless...I have lost all confidence on myself and just want to avoid sex.

I know it is just a matter of time...but I would like to hear about someone in my situation who has recovered.

Thanks for reading guys...and good luck for everyone. :)

Porn Induced Erectile Dysfunction/Delayed Ejaculation / Question PIED
« on: October 31, 2015, 03:41:12 PM »
I´ve had PIED for 10 years.
I have been 8 days without PMO. In the whole week I haven´t felt is like my dick is I decided to try to masturbate without any visual stimulus...but I couldnt get an erection...I tried and tried until I eyaculated..but never got the erection and when I fisnished my heart was beating really fast and it didn't slow down until some hours after that.

Has anyone gone through this? Is the fast beating normal?

Ages 30-39 / 30yo and PIED for 10 years
« on: October 25, 2015, 10:22:22 AM »
Hi everyone,

Sorry for my English as it is not my 1st language.

I'm 29.
I have never had a real couple (not more than 2 months)
I´ve been suffering from PIED since 19.
I never thought porn would be the cause, until now.

I discovered porn before real sex, when I was 15, but I started masturbating at 11 with TV. My first sexual relation was 4 years after that. I was 19 and I couldn´t get a full erection. We tried several times in a month...but I decided to quit and return to the safety of my computer.

I masturbated compulsively when I got home from school or job. I masturbated 4 o 5 times in a day until I discovered what my problem was...2 years ago. Now i do it once a day or less...but still my brain doesn't work properly.

In ten years I have had sex with less than 10 people but I have never got a full erection to put a condom and have sex completely.

All those experiences have make me become very insecure in sex and recently I have lost a couple I was in love with because of my insecurities.

I have a good job, friends, family and it is not very difficult for me to meet people, but when the moment of sex comes all my insecurities appear and I can't get an erection.

I just needed to share this because I thought I was crazy and that I was not "normal". I want to recover and meet someone and have good and real sex. I´m worried about my age and all the time I have spent in my computer.

Thank U guys and good luck for everyone.

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