Blenderhead
Member
Hey rebooters!
I gave up porn about one year ago. I haven't watched porn since. I started reading about PIED more than one year ago and gradually I started changing my life. I was a +30 virgin and I was afraid of kissing. Now I have been on many dates, and I have also kissed and had sex with almost 10 different women - and they look better and better. I have worked out 3 times per week, and I have started doing yoga. I also feel like I have really kicked my addiction to porn. I used to watch porn everyday, morning and evening. I used to masturbate many times per day, sometimes I would lose count and masturbate 10 times. I did not experience any erection problems until about a year ago, so I decided to start my reboot. I have not been able to remove my ED. I still am totally soft when I have sex. I have been able to have sex a few times while being almost fully hard, but it's not that often. It seems like I experience a lot of progress, but so far my rewiring and my reboot has not improved my erections, maybe some very small improvements.
Right now I have gone 1 month without masturbating too. I have stopped edging almost, which was a problem for me, and I don't masturbate to dating sites anymore either. Sometimes I feel like hermit now ! But I talk a lot with women, and I attract more women. Some days ago a woman was crazy about me and really wanted sex, I had to let her down and tell her, that I was not ready. So even after being PMO free for 360 days I have this problem.
But I have had a lot of succes and I enjoy kissing women and I enjoy being very active in the gym. It feels like my erections are fine once I am horny, but I just don't get that horny. So maybe this flatline is just a lot longer than usual.
Has anyone here experienced the same as me? That this reboot improves many areas of ones life, but does not improve erection quality? I am really sad today, because I am so dedicated to this process and I have the possibility to have sex, but I have to say no ... I just really enjoy kissing and connecting, but my desire for sex is really low ...
I guess my brain has been really strongly wired for porn, so it might take much longer than a year to gain sexual health ...
I gave up porn about one year ago. I haven't watched porn since. I started reading about PIED more than one year ago and gradually I started changing my life. I was a +30 virgin and I was afraid of kissing. Now I have been on many dates, and I have also kissed and had sex with almost 10 different women - and they look better and better. I have worked out 3 times per week, and I have started doing yoga. I also feel like I have really kicked my addiction to porn. I used to watch porn everyday, morning and evening. I used to masturbate many times per day, sometimes I would lose count and masturbate 10 times. I did not experience any erection problems until about a year ago, so I decided to start my reboot. I have not been able to remove my ED. I still am totally soft when I have sex. I have been able to have sex a few times while being almost fully hard, but it's not that often. It seems like I experience a lot of progress, but so far my rewiring and my reboot has not improved my erections, maybe some very small improvements.
Right now I have gone 1 month without masturbating too. I have stopped edging almost, which was a problem for me, and I don't masturbate to dating sites anymore either. Sometimes I feel like hermit now ! But I talk a lot with women, and I attract more women. Some days ago a woman was crazy about me and really wanted sex, I had to let her down and tell her, that I was not ready. So even after being PMO free for 360 days I have this problem.
But I have had a lot of succes and I enjoy kissing women and I enjoy being very active in the gym. It feels like my erections are fine once I am horny, but I just don't get that horny. So maybe this flatline is just a lot longer than usual.
Has anyone here experienced the same as me? That this reboot improves many areas of ones life, but does not improve erection quality? I am really sad today, because I am so dedicated to this process and I have the possibility to have sex, but I have to say no ... I just really enjoy kissing and connecting, but my desire for sex is really low ...
I guess my brain has been really strongly wired for porn, so it might take much longer than a year to gain sexual health ...