Making changes

So I've finally admitted to myself I have a problem and I need to sort things out.

The difficulty is I've just started seeing a girl and don't want to scare her off...

I'm 28 and been single for about 4 years, found myself using porn pretty much daily and now struggle to achieve erection without it. I met a girl a few weeks ago, on our 2nd date we went out for drinks. We both got pretty drunk and ended up back in her bed which I wasn't expecting to happen so soon. I told her my lack of performance was probably down to the drink. I slept over at hers again a few days ago but she was "on" so just lots of cuddling and kissing. I did get about 75% erect in bed with her this time so I guess that's something good.

I'm not sure what to do now, I know I need to reboot myself but I'm worried about messing up this relationship. Right now I'm thinking about just trying to block out all stimulation other than the new girlfriend and hope my brain learns what is real.

I guess if I do mess this relationship up hopefully I'll be in a better place next time I meet someone.

Hey,

Right now I'm thinking about just trying to block out all stimulation other than the new girlfriend and hope my brain learns what is real

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I think that's the best thing you can do right now : stop watching porn and also stop masturbation.
I wouldn't recommand you to avoid having sex with your girlfriend, and even if you cannot get a good erection, you can still stick to foreplay.

I cannot really give you much more advice knowing that I'm also just starting out my reboot.

Good luck to you

Thanks for your reply! I hope your reboot goes well too.