21yr old Virgin 90+ days noPMO

Hey guys,I just want to say that I have been rebooting for 90+days with 3 relapses in first 30 days(softcore images not even naked chicks).My MW returned,even sometimes stays there while casually walking around the house,porn addiction is also long gone.Still I have a question bcs I'm a virgin who attempted and failed at having sex many times so here it is...During foreplay should I get spontaneously hard or is it necessary to stimulate my penis to get fully hard.I'm asking this bcs when i kiss and cuddle with my gf I get hard but still not enough for sex unless i physically stimulate my penis...I would really appreciate an answer

For a generally healthy male excessive physical stimulation is not required for a full erection while being intimate with a partner. But as with many other symptoms of PIED this becomes one too. However, it seems like you are on the right path and with consistent rewiring that should improve too. Cheers! keep us updated.

Thanks for answer bro I know it was a bit stupid question...
Still the situation is the same for me I hope that it will get better with time

Hello my friend! I have almost the same situation as you. Therefore, we just need to stock up on nerves and patience!I am sure that at the end of this year there will definitely be positive changes! And there is a whole life ahead

Hey man,at the end of this year there will definitely be positive changes but since I'm in a relationship I hope that by the end of this month I will be sexually functional

Hey guys in your opinion could physical stimulation be beneficial in recovery process or not ?

What do you mean by physical stimulation?

If you are talking about hugs, kisses and other small pranks, then this has a beneficial effect on your brain, if you are talking about sexual stimulation with a mandatory erection, then it will be superfluous, since too little time has passed. Look, I'm in the same reboot phase now as you are. I plan to just communicate with girls more, spend more time with them and all that, and also I would like to find a girl and just fool around with her, without intense sexual stimulation, since I understand that this is still in time.

Thanks for reply man i really appreciate it.Wish you best of luck on your journey !

We are in the same boat, buddy! Good luck to you!  8)