gfriend
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Hello.
My partner has PIED. Firstly, I'd like to thank you so so much for all your work on this. I have finally discovered what's been happening and it helped tremendously to understand what the cause of the disfunction is. My partner is 30 and I am 37. He has majority of the symptoms: low libido, difficulty with holding on erection (around 30% of time), delayed ejaculation (around 30% of time), unable to climax via oral sex. I'm writing to ask for advise as I'm unable to find information on our specific case (as it seems). My partner claims he occasionally watches and masturbates to porn (max once a week) since we got together (10 months ago). He is keen to start treatment however we don't know how to proceed. We agreed he'd stop watching completely but we are unsure whether or not we should or should not have sex for some period of time. I'm wondering if we should go through typical rebooting or is there a different process for such case where he is not addicted but the effects of abuse are there? There's not too much information on rebooting with a partner. Also, I am one of those horny partners but I'm more than willing to go through it with him. Any advise on this is very much appreciated. Thank you!
My partner has PIED. Firstly, I'd like to thank you so so much for all your work on this. I have finally discovered what's been happening and it helped tremendously to understand what the cause of the disfunction is. My partner is 30 and I am 37. He has majority of the symptoms: low libido, difficulty with holding on erection (around 30% of time), delayed ejaculation (around 30% of time), unable to climax via oral sex. I'm writing to ask for advise as I'm unable to find information on our specific case (as it seems). My partner claims he occasionally watches and masturbates to porn (max once a week) since we got together (10 months ago). He is keen to start treatment however we don't know how to proceed. We agreed he'd stop watching completely but we are unsure whether or not we should or should not have sex for some period of time. I'm wondering if we should go through typical rebooting or is there a different process for such case where he is not addicted but the effects of abuse are there? There's not too much information on rebooting with a partner. Also, I am one of those horny partners but I'm more than willing to go through it with him. Any advise on this is very much appreciated. Thank you!