I know I've got retational issues like many here do but I'm coming to the conclusion that relational issues involve more people than just one, but rebooting which we all want to do is a personal goal and whether or not the relational issues are corrected, just rebooting my mind will be the best for me. The only thing hindering me is myself, I have made it 60 days and as told in many testimonies some things are showing like an increase in energy. I see something that needs or should be done and I get it done without even hesitating. The brain for is clearing more and more so on and so on. The relational issues are still there but complicated by my wife's bewilderment of what's going on with me. I told her what I was up to a while back but the effects are starting to become apparent and she is a little taken back. I am thinking that in time my change will be as such to defeat the relational issues. It's going to take time but I feel I can sense progess. I encourage all of you to stay the course and I hope yours and my relational difficulties resolve as a by product. But the main thing is for us personally to rewire our brains, we will be better men for it in the long run.
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Bibbity, I do hope you're right. I know now for my own good I need to rewire but I was not all that hooked on porn, I usually just wanted to see a nude woman from time to time, action vids were curious but just that. But that was enough and I must say you ladies can stay mad for a long time! I've been retired 4 years and she's finally decided her job can make it without her so she plans to retire in a couple months too. What a wonderful retirement we could have if we could get through this. Oh well, I brought it on myself and have been married 44 yrs, I am going to stay with my rewiring, keep smiling and stay away from even a naked image. Tough even watching TV though! Thanks for your words of encouragement.