Hi everybody, I'm new here and I would like to share my story with you. I don't speak english very good so please forgive my grammatical errors.
I'm 33 and I use porn since I was 16 or 17. Like many of you it wasn't bad at the beginning, I wasn't good to date girls since I was too shy so porn was the "alternative".
It become a problem in a few and I started to use it in a more and more compulsive way. I watched everything, transexual porn included. Moving on things went worse, I met my first girlfriend, sex was hot on the first times but after I realized that I really didn't like her so I relapsed on porn. After some years I broke with my past girlfriend and met my future (ex) wife. She was the love of my life, but I despite this I never stopped to watch porn. I tried some times but I always relapsed. Now we are beaking up and I'm going trough an HOCD. It started because I don't feel the needing to date girls actually and I started to think about the shemale porn I watched. Trough the years I discovered webcams website and everything changed. It wasn't like a porn site where you can choose the kind of porn you prefer, you have females, couples, males and shemales so in my porn routine I started to watch females and couples (preferably with big breast) and some shemale to give me the hit of adrenaline.
Moreover during the last four years I cheated on my wife (I'm really ashamed about this) with some hookers. It was like the next step of porn and in the last months I started to think about transexual hookers but I never met one.
Now I would like to have control of my life back. I'm on the 25th day of porn free and I'm trying hard to understand how to heal myself.
It was very important to think the reason why I relapsed in the past and I started to recognize my feelings when I feel the urge.
I hope to move on and to hear from you
I'm 33 and I use porn since I was 16 or 17. Like many of you it wasn't bad at the beginning, I wasn't good to date girls since I was too shy so porn was the "alternative".
It become a problem in a few and I started to use it in a more and more compulsive way. I watched everything, transexual porn included. Moving on things went worse, I met my first girlfriend, sex was hot on the first times but after I realized that I really didn't like her so I relapsed on porn. After some years I broke with my past girlfriend and met my future (ex) wife. She was the love of my life, but I despite this I never stopped to watch porn. I tried some times but I always relapsed. Now we are beaking up and I'm going trough an HOCD. It started because I don't feel the needing to date girls actually and I started to think about the shemale porn I watched. Trough the years I discovered webcams website and everything changed. It wasn't like a porn site where you can choose the kind of porn you prefer, you have females, couples, males and shemales so in my porn routine I started to watch females and couples (preferably with big breast) and some shemale to give me the hit of adrenaline.
Moreover during the last four years I cheated on my wife (I'm really ashamed about this) with some hookers. It was like the next step of porn and in the last months I started to think about transexual hookers but I never met one.
Now I would like to have control of my life back. I'm on the 25th day of porn free and I'm trying hard to understand how to heal myself.
It was very important to think the reason why I relapsed in the past and I started to recognize my feelings when I feel the urge.
I hope to move on and to hear from you