Hi guys
I am 53, happily married.
My wife and I have lived in separate countries for close on three years because of work requirements. We are together about every six to eight weeks for a week or two and for two months over December January every year. When we are together we have awesome sex.
Since our live-apart arrangement started I have increasingly resorted to porn as a refuge. It has never become obsessive and all-consuming but there has been some times of binging. However, whenever I am with my wife I totally forget about porn and PMO. I have never considered PMO to be an issue and have viewed it simply as a crutch, especially when lonely, depressed or stressed. It has however, recently become somewhat of a conscious escape when the pressures piled up.
For the past year I have at times experiencing mild ED as well as DE - not all of the time and every time. I ascribed it to stress, aging and health, especially when the next time things worked better again. I have also found that the general strength of my erection has decreased steadily over the past year or two to where it now is usually at about 70% to 80%, to strengthen to 100% only on orgasm. The only exception is when I watch porn - then I get it to 100% all of the time with no exception.
I cannot imagine a life withouts sex and I want to get better as soon as possible. I have had a conversation with my wife and she is very supportive.
It would be great to find a mentor to guide me through this process of restoring equilibrium to my life.
I am 53, happily married.
My wife and I have lived in separate countries for close on three years because of work requirements. We are together about every six to eight weeks for a week or two and for two months over December January every year. When we are together we have awesome sex.
Since our live-apart arrangement started I have increasingly resorted to porn as a refuge. It has never become obsessive and all-consuming but there has been some times of binging. However, whenever I am with my wife I totally forget about porn and PMO. I have never considered PMO to be an issue and have viewed it simply as a crutch, especially when lonely, depressed or stressed. It has however, recently become somewhat of a conscious escape when the pressures piled up.
For the past year I have at times experiencing mild ED as well as DE - not all of the time and every time. I ascribed it to stress, aging and health, especially when the next time things worked better again. I have also found that the general strength of my erection has decreased steadily over the past year or two to where it now is usually at about 70% to 80%, to strengthen to 100% only on orgasm. The only exception is when I watch porn - then I get it to 100% all of the time with no exception.
I cannot imagine a life withouts sex and I want to get better as soon as possible. I have had a conversation with my wife and she is very supportive.
It would be great to find a mentor to guide me through this process of restoring equilibrium to my life.