I was not exposed to pornography like many of these posts indicate. I studied a lot in high school to get into college. My father told me that it did not matter what my major was but that it was important in postgraduate school. So I studied a lot to get into graduate school. In college I looked at my first Playboy and was not impressed at the stories or the satire and the center fold was just that - a nude woman. After college, some co-workers introduced me to a women they thought had similar ideas as mine. She told me early into our friendship that there would be no sex. I told her that was quite ok with me. Some weeks later, I helped her move into a new apartment and she came by me house and disrobed. She asked me to do the same and I had my first penetration at 27 years old. Zoology and Biology did not present the vagina as being warm or moist with a sticky substance. This surprised me. The friendship ended within a year and it is now 39 years since I have had intercourse with a women. -- This was a successful period until a man at a church asked me to have sex with him. I heard that high school and college men were now freely having sex with other men and women. I had no time for that in school. Which proves that if you concentrate on educating yourself with other interests and tasks you will not have time for intercourse, masturbation or porn. He moved away and that ended my sex life after 3 times with him. That was 25 years ago. -- Last summer I was diagnosed with prostate cancer and the urologist suggested either chemotherapy or prostatectomy. I quickly searched the web for alternative treatments and found RebootNation.org. Some sites spoke of masturbating to relieve the prostate gland of seminal fluids and others ruled against any activity. -- My question is do any of you know of other alternative treatments. Please hang in there guys you can make it and outdo my 39 years with a slight relapse. Thank you so much for sharing and being so honest with your life histories. This site is very open in discussing men's issues.
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