Wanttobebetter...is your wife a very understanding person? If she is not,you may not want to enrage her.Porn is a completely different animal then alcohol. She can definitely understand your "love" for the bottle because there is no emotional attachment ,but she might feel betrayed or even feel inadequate because you find porn more desirable.Even if you justify to her that it has now become an addiction,and it's not even about sexual desire,as opposed to pushing your mind for more dopamine hits.Remember,you already put her through alcohol recovery,she may say"oh man..what else is this husband of mine putting me through now..I didn't sign up for this".You know your wife better then we all do.Think this out..very carefully.If you feel comfortable with telling her,pour your emotions out to her,because nobody else will stand by you.We as members here can give you support for things you may not want discuss with her,but the core problem,if it bothers you,you have to speak to her from the heart and tell her why you are telling her.The guilt,when released may make your relationship with her,and your recovery that more manageable.I will stress,that you think out all scenarios before spilling the beans.One last thing..get a therapist.They will make you accountable..and make sure you grill the hell out of them to what type of "sex addiction" therapist they really are.You don't want to walk in there and tell them your story and they look at you like a deer in head lights.Be well my friend,you will find this recovery great,bad,terrible,and great...good luck.