Hello everyone, 31 year old who is on day 14 of 180 of noPMO.
I have a question. Of all the guys who watch porn, how many accuire porn-related problems? Of couse there are allot of factors like frequency, start-time, level of intensity etc. I gues what i am asking about is, is it possible for some to watch porn and not get problems? Are some more prone to develop this things?
I think back 10 years ago, one example was at a party. I was SO anxious if was unbelievable. I tend to think i didn't watch more P than the average guy (i might be wrong..)
Today i am less anxious, but still feel it when im with other people, especially strangers. I have major brainfog, which gets in my way of connecting with others...My mind just feels blank all the time and i think...no, i know that that was one contributing factor to my last breakup. I just identified one of my bad behaviors; I remember one of my early GF's, i had a problem that I wanted to talk to her about. So i did, and she said she did not agree and told me to explain why i was thinking this way. Then it happened, my mind whent blank! Nothing! And after that incidence I have tried to not get into a discussion because i know my mind is not good at that stuff. Hopefully after my reboot it will improove.
Other things that contributed to my recent breakup was that i got irritated about small things that she did, i have not reacted in that way with other GF's. She was very stuborn, and she thought she knew alot when in fact she didnt. She could not compromise when we had a disagreement. I dont know, feels like... i dont know. Perhaps I might have overreacted..
Also I am not as social as i want to be. On a 1-10 scale im on 2 at the moment. Hopefully it will improove.
166 days left, lets see what it does to my life.
I have a question. Of all the guys who watch porn, how many accuire porn-related problems? Of couse there are allot of factors like frequency, start-time, level of intensity etc. I gues what i am asking about is, is it possible for some to watch porn and not get problems? Are some more prone to develop this things?
I think back 10 years ago, one example was at a party. I was SO anxious if was unbelievable. I tend to think i didn't watch more P than the average guy (i might be wrong..)
Today i am less anxious, but still feel it when im with other people, especially strangers. I have major brainfog, which gets in my way of connecting with others...My mind just feels blank all the time and i think...no, i know that that was one contributing factor to my last breakup. I just identified one of my bad behaviors; I remember one of my early GF's, i had a problem that I wanted to talk to her about. So i did, and she said she did not agree and told me to explain why i was thinking this way. Then it happened, my mind whent blank! Nothing! And after that incidence I have tried to not get into a discussion because i know my mind is not good at that stuff. Hopefully after my reboot it will improove.
Other things that contributed to my recent breakup was that i got irritated about small things that she did, i have not reacted in that way with other GF's. She was very stuborn, and she thought she knew alot when in fact she didnt. She could not compromise when we had a disagreement. I dont know, feels like... i dont know. Perhaps I might have overreacted..
Also I am not as social as i want to be. On a 1-10 scale im on 2 at the moment. Hopefully it will improove.
166 days left, lets see what it does to my life.