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Ages 30-39 / Re: So my journey has started
« on: November 18, 2020, 08:28:32 PM »
Hi! Jimminy Jilickers Batman!
No, but its great that youre here. And although porn has fucked you up to the point of impotence and crippling imasculinity, youve now found the cure! That is a cause for celebration because a lot of guys go through their lives without even knowing why theyve got the floppies and what to do about it! So relax, youll be fine now.
(PS. is your name a reference to wanking? Where Im from "bat" means "toss" or "wank". Eg, "HAving a bat." Please feel free to ignore this question...)

Porn Induced Erectile Dysfunction/Delayed Ejaculation / Re: Losing hope
« on: November 18, 2020, 08:23:19 PM »
I would say instead of worrying about whether or not you can still get turned on by images of some filthy whores on the internet, you should be more concerned with fapping to images of filthy whores on the internet! THAT is your biggest problem here, not the fact that you feel like they cant turn you on. Your brain is telling you to stop looking at it and give your self a rest!
Also, if you are contemplating suice please seek professional guidence.

I would try not to obsess too much over if youre "cured" or not. The very fact that youre asking this might suggest that you need a little more time to recover. Its when you dont even think about it and you just suddenly know, then Id say youre on your way to cured.

Porn Addiction / Re: Triggers or Cues?
« on: November 18, 2020, 08:15:13 PM »
Yeah thats a good idea.
Recognise what you are seeing for the illusion it is. Dont let what you perceive with your senses (in this case the eyes) influence what goes on in your head. The two must be kept seperate. They are pixels on a screen which have been decoded by your faculty of sight - thats where it ends. Theere is nothing inherently sexy or arousing about that at all.

yes it could be that youve just been beating yourself to porn too much. your dopamine receptors and sexual sensitivity is comepletly broken. thats a good sign that your body needs a rest!
the next step would be to look at more "extreme" porn, if the material you look at now doesnt do it for you. and lets please not get into any of that... that can get very weird and scary...

Yeha buddy, you can recover for sure. I did! and i was waaaaaaaaay further gone than you...
Just stick wih the reboot and avoid ALL artificial sexual stimuli.

Yeah buddy, youre fucked. You can and will recover if you rewire your brain NOW. Youre in pretty deep so dont expect it to happen overnight, but if you wtick to it it will happen for sure. Dont let it get any worse!

yeah at the start of the reboot. porn fucks up the dopamine receptors as you know, and this can leave you feeling like a steaming sack of shit. they will regulate themselves again so dont worry too much

You could be experiencing whats called a "flatline". Thats when during your reboot you have zero interest in anything sexual and you couldnt give a fuck (literally) about your cock, it just sort of hangs there. This is actually a good thing thouhg. It means your body needs a rest and is reparing itself naturally. On the other hand you should be happy that you have no interest in PMO! For fucks sake give yourself a rest! Your body will heal itself and youll have a healthy interest in sex again.

If you actively seek out sexual experiences within the game and use them for sexual stimulation, then yes. That can fuck up your reboot.

Its bullshit. The only thing that is going to help PIED is rebooting and quitting PMO. All that bullshit herbal shit does fuck all for people with PMO induced floppy cock, at the very best it might make you feel horny for half an hour or so.

Porn Addiction / Re: Some concerns about the reboot
« on: November 09, 2020, 07:23:50 PM »
1. it could be you are just sensitive, or your brain is wired to respond like that due to excessive wanking. either way i wouldnt worry about that too much just dont make a habit out of it! Also, what is "waxing the penis"...? :-\
2.  actually it could help your reboot. since you are rewiring your sexual responses to an actual person instead of some filthy whores on a computer screen. only receiving sexual stimulation from real world experiences as opposed to the artificial stimuli with porn.
3. yeah the first week or so is the toughest, so expect a lot of temptations and urges. it was good that you could eliminate that trigger when you saw it. keep that up. the fact that you didnt follow through with it and bat your cock like a madman is very promising. it wasnt a relapse. if you had actively searched for such images thats another story, but if they just popped up unexpectedly then no, not a relapse.

Ages 30-39 / Re: Recovering from complete loss of libido
« on: November 01, 2020, 07:34:15 PM »
Hey Mark,
Yep, porn will do that to you. Youve got erectile dysfunction due to excessive porn abuse. Simple.
What you are experiencing now is called a "flatline". It  might be a little scary, having a floppy cock stuck to your crotch, but this is a good thing. It means your body needs a rest. Your cock isnt responding because its completely exhausted from all the thrashing to porn youve been subjecting it to, not to mention the fucked up state of your dopamine receptors, whihc are now well and truly fucked.
So just enjoy this flatline, after all the trouble your cock has given you take some peace in the fact that its dead for a while. But it will rise again like some sort of sexual Jesus rising from the dead.
As long as you stay away from porn and all artificial stimulation your body will repair itself naturally. No need to worry about that. It just takes time, and youll start seeing benefits soon.
this shit works, mate. Stick to it and keep checking back in here should you have any questions.

Yep, youve got a textbook case of the floppies. Porn has fucked your brain so much that you cant even get hard enough to satisfy your girlfriend. Its pathetic, I know becasue ive been there many a floppy time. As have many others on this forum.
The excellent news, though, is that you can get back to your rock-hard cock and back to plowing the shit out of your girlfriend by sticking to this whole reboot thing! It works.

Porn Addiction / Re: Confused!!!
« on: November 01, 2020, 07:24:41 PM »
Good morning! or evening. Whatever.
Welcome to the forum!
You mentioned that you think there isnt a good reason to reboot because you broke up? Thats a pretty fucked up attitude to have buddy. In other words you were doing it not for yourself, but for some girl who just broke up with you anyway!
Stop that type of thinking. Do the reboot for yourself now. You owe yourself that much. And once you have recovered again, your confidencce will return and youll be able to get an even better girl than before!

Porn Addiction / Re: Save Me
« on: November 01, 2020, 07:21:35 PM »
Hey buddy,
Dont worry, youll get all the help you need right here!
Yeah its hell at the start and you might even think that there isnt anything you can do to reverse it. But you can. And its called... wait for it... the muthafuckin REBOOT!
The very fact that you are here means you are very lucky, other guys go through their lives not even knowing about the cause of all their problems or are in denial about porn addiction. Those people are fucked. Youve found the cure so just take the medicine and youll be fine.
How often did you look at porn?
Have you experienced any other symptoms such as floppy cock, depression, anxiety, lethargy?

sounds like youre well on your way to erectile dysfunction, you have it now, but it will get worse and harder to cure if you dont stop watching porn immiediately! thats the only way out of the hell of floppy cock. heres some tips that helped me:

-take a note of your triggers, what situations give you urges to PMO, what images, sounds, anything. even particular states of mind you are in that would trigger an urge to fap.

- practice ways of removing yourself both physically and mentally from situations and environments you find yourself in that trigger you. for example if youre at your computer you can easily shut the screen or get up and walk away, same with your phone. as for mentally doing the same thing, if its hard to actually get up and walk away or close the screen or whatever, take yourself away from it mentally by practicing mindfullness techniques etc, or just by simply taking a breath and recognising what you are seeing and expeienceing as being illusion; just the cheap trickery your addicted mind is using to try and get you to relapse.

- let yourself feel like shit about this whole thing. after all its your fault. you gave yourself erectile dysfunction because you couldnt stop wanking over porn. dont sugar coat it. how fucked up is that! actually to the point where its given you a sexual dysfunction! thinking about this will give you great motivation to never ever let it happen again. youve found a way out, and if you choose to, youll never have to experience those things again!

keep on this forum and keep asking questions about anything you want to know!

Porn Addiction / Re: (help) I donĀ“t know how to deal with my urges.
« on: October 25, 2020, 07:29:08 PM »
9 days is a pretty good streak!
how did you do that before? do you remember what your triggers were that made you relapse?
at the earliest stages when the urges and triggers are everywhere, its really necessasry that you PHYSICALLY REMOVE yourself from whatever situation you are in that is giving you the urges. Out of sight, out of mind. For examples if you are at the computer and you see some slutty provocative image, or on your phone, immediately close it and get up and walk away. it might sounds a little drastic but its a good method, and a good habit to build

Ages 20-29 / Re: Journey to see the light at the end of the tunnel
« on: October 21, 2020, 10:21:30 PM »
yeah i know you must hate youself for ever getting into this  shit. but use that hate and self loathing to give you motivation to never ever do it again!

Ages 20-29 / Re: Journey to see the light at the end of the tunnel
« on: October 20, 2020, 11:34:00 PM »
yeah the first week or so is when the urges rage on and on, plus theres triggers from all directions! just remember it WILL get better, it has to get better because its a natural prcess of the brain to rewire. Just keep on guard about all the bullshit

Ages 20-29 / Re: Journey to see the light at the end of the tunnel
« on: October 18, 2020, 07:44:38 PM »
Your stroy read like the typical porn addiction / floppy cock horror story that features a lot around here.
But try not to despair, you shuold be happy! The reason for that is that you have now found the cure and you know what to do to get  your life back. A lot of guys never even hear abiut this method and they go through their sad and pathetic lives like a PMO zombie.
You said that you feeel as though you are not living, thats because porn has taken all the life out of you and fucked up your life (and penis) like you wouldnt beleive!
Wht you need to do now is to hang around this forum and get any questions you may have answered, theres a lot of good people here who can help you

Physically, your cock looks lke a half-chewed sausage that someone has stapled to your crotch. Its dead basically. You should ignore it at this time and let it die for a while, frcing it back to life by trying to give it some type of masturbatory CPR will only damage you further. It will come back to life again once youve recovered enough, until then try not to worry about it.

Porn Addiction / Re: Control during COVID Lockdown
« on: October 18, 2020, 07:36:25 PM »
Since Im not in lockdown I dont know but what do you usually do to avoid PMO? The same things would still apply I think, the only difference is that the news on TV says you are in lockdown.

Porn Addiction / Re: What impact does porn addiction have on your body?
« on: October 18, 2020, 07:35:03 PM »
PMO addiction and fapping the shit out of yourself too much has an extremely detrimental effect on the mind so it only stands to reason that the body will follow suit. I destroys your mind so it will destroy your body.
Those things you mentioned might come from the boost in motivation you get from quitting PMO. People tend to get off their arse more when they quit porn and do things like exercise, etc. The body hair thing is weird though!

Ages 30-39 / Re: Well and Truly in the Grip
« on: October 18, 2020, 07:30:54 PM »
Dont worry too much about the relapse, it happens and chances are it will happen again before you get a full grip on things (not a grip on your cock!)
You went thre weeks before so thats great! What was the trigger this time?

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