Samsonite377
Member
Hello!
Today, June 1, 2020, is my first day of rebooting. I'm a little scared. And honestly, very anxious. I have viewed pornography ever since I was 10 years old and I am now 22 years old. I feel like I don't know my true self because its been such a long times since I haven't viewed pornography. I'm scared of failure or that this won't be as beneficial as I thought. But I want to keep trying. I want a better life for myself and help everyone else on this forum. We're all in this together!
SHORT TERM GOAL:
1) Go 10 days sober
2) Go 3 months sober
June 3 Update:
I am three days sober from everything. I'm pretty happy about my progress through these last couple of days. Yesterday was very interesting because I was able to get a hard on thinking about a girl that I physically knew. However, I didn't want want my brain to wander off about about things that I have learned from pornography. Also, I did notice a new potential trigger. I thought about one of my exes and how I was treated in the relationship. Honestly, I've reached out to her to just be friends, but nothing has really come out of it. She has taunted about her on-and-off again relationship, but the feeling of loneliness was a trigger to turn back to pornography. I began to feel like no one likes me or even cares to acknowledge how I feel. Honestly, it wasn't a good relationship for me but the loneliness makes me want to huddle into a small hole of shame and guilt (for being nice to a person who won't reciprocate. It sometimes makes it easier for me to fall into pornography to escape the pain. I know that I will have to face that challenge in order to beat pornography. But other than that, I'm happy I've been able to go another day sober.
Today, June 1, 2020, is my first day of rebooting. I'm a little scared. And honestly, very anxious. I have viewed pornography ever since I was 10 years old and I am now 22 years old. I feel like I don't know my true self because its been such a long times since I haven't viewed pornography. I'm scared of failure or that this won't be as beneficial as I thought. But I want to keep trying. I want a better life for myself and help everyone else on this forum. We're all in this together!
SHORT TERM GOAL:
1) Go 10 days sober
2) Go 3 months sober
June 3 Update:
I am three days sober from everything. I'm pretty happy about my progress through these last couple of days. Yesterday was very interesting because I was able to get a hard on thinking about a girl that I physically knew. However, I didn't want want my brain to wander off about about things that I have learned from pornography. Also, I did notice a new potential trigger. I thought about one of my exes and how I was treated in the relationship. Honestly, I've reached out to her to just be friends, but nothing has really come out of it. She has taunted about her on-and-off again relationship, but the feeling of loneliness was a trigger to turn back to pornography. I began to feel like no one likes me or even cares to acknowledge how I feel. Honestly, it wasn't a good relationship for me but the loneliness makes me want to huddle into a small hole of shame and guilt (for being nice to a person who won't reciprocate. It sometimes makes it easier for me to fall into pornography to escape the pain. I know that I will have to face that challenge in order to beat pornography. But other than that, I'm happy I've been able to go another day sober.