success is a choice

olafthewise

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If you want it to work, it will. I have no bitterness of leaving porn. I know my brain does better without it. It was a poison. There is a danger though and we all need to be vigilant and wary of stumbling into the same thing again. I have other things to do instead of porn and that alone is a good concept. 
On my success, I say getting off the porn is doing well. However, the 9 months of no coital sex with my wife who has Vaginismus does not make things easy. She is a prude so her technique for other things other than PIV is poor. I have given up on her. She could care less.
My depression while on porn was bad enough. Now, I am worse. The thought of my wife being so oblivious to getting treatment for her condition leaves me empty and alone. I can tend to my duties as a house dad. that is all.
 
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