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andrewood

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non porn induced fetishes
« on: April 11, 2016, 10:41:21 AM »
Dear Reboot Commounity,

is anyone of you dealing with fetishes you had before using porn?

Being tied up turned me on long before I was exposed to any kind of porn. In fact, it was the first sexual fantasy I had.

Don't quite know how to deal with it now.


Marco

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Re: non porn induced fetishes
« Reply #1 on: April 11, 2016, 11:01:47 AM »
Hi buddy,

interesting, I have the same question. I think I have a foot fetish and a fetish for dominant woman, but after 15 day no PMO, I'm not sure anymore. Slowly I have the feel that the fetish fantasies came/ from porn.
I remember that I was attracted to this as a boy (~13yo) but never was really a strong desire. But after I started with internet porn (~18yo) I developed a strong fetish until today.

That is so strange, I'm not sure about my sexuality anymore. I try to be patient and observe myself and I'm somehow curios what will happen.

Stay strong!
Marco

 
« Last Edit: April 11, 2016, 11:04:06 AM by Marco »

llcc1103

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Re: non porn induced fetishes
« Reply #2 on: April 11, 2016, 08:17:03 PM »
Ive always had a foot fetish, but I think I was using sexual acts, lusts and then a couple years later porn to numb anxieties and stressors.  Over the years, i went from getting turned on from pictures, play, to fantasizing about being dominated, bdsm, etc etc... its definitely gained incredible strength over the years.  Now, im in a relationship that I want to last and develop a family with. Day by day...

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Re: non porn induced fetishes
« Reply #3 on: April 12, 2016, 06:02:13 AM »
About the same thing here andrewood. But porn has really turned those small fetishes into something strong. But as time has passed, those things lose their power. After a complete reboot, then you will know your real fetishes and can accept them as part of you.

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« Reply #4 on: April 12, 2016, 07:20:12 AM »
Honestly, I think most of us may be unable to answer this question (yet). The only point I'd feel entitled to would be abstinence from porn for a long term (e. g. more than a year), since I cannot really recall having much sexual stimulation before discovering porn (back in the modem days). However, I strongly intend to find out whether my current and past fetishes would still persevere.