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faptastic

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Well guys I hit 50 days, report hocd not as bad but when I have a bad day dont talk to me, slight morning woods 1 wet dream, feel awful disconnected to women lately can seem to communicate with them, is the brain fog? My reboot is talking longer then expected I suppose my ed with women gos on since I was 21 has this anything to do with the reason I have fuck all sexual interest in them its getting depressing too cause im getting more girls then I ever did but my dick just about twitches no like when I was 20, can someone please tell me what was the longest flatline someone suffered and when did this burst of sexual energy come back cause my interest in sex is not their at all I used porn for a long time as a routine not desire is my orge for sex gone completely need answers from someone who is suffering from hocd to answer this who recovered or same story because I think im heading for a relapse cause all the stories I seen are people who were doing well by 90 days out of flatline and im not seeing that for me so im open to questions and answers help....

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Re: ed flatline no really interest in oposite sex slight touch of hocd
« Reply #1 on: June 04, 2014, 07:58:37 PM »
Are you in a relationship or are we talking about casual sex?  Sometimes it can be confusing to know what is libido and what's not.  A lot of guys come to find out that their porn cravings are not real libido and that real libido is more subtle.  You may not really feel a desire to have sex until getting close to a woman you really like.  50 days is not a very long time either in the reboot, it's only about 2 months and you've been PMOing for a long time.  Give it time and go easy on yourself, you will get it back :)
In order to rise from its own ashes, a Phoenix first must burn.”
― Octavia E. Butler

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Re: ed flatline no really interest in oposite sex slight touch of hocd
« Reply #2 on: June 04, 2014, 09:05:28 PM »
Agree with the above. What I will add to that is that everyone's recovery is going to happen at a different rate. And certain factors make recovery longer, such as sexual experience prior to PMO.

Different people also go through the flatline at different times. For me, it started around 2-3 weeks in and lasted around 2-3. Then I was very sensitive and energetic and craved actual sex for a couple weeks. Now I'm more even keel. I'm very aroused when I'm with a girl I've been seeing and when I think about her or talk to her sometimes, but not as much otherwise. It also helps that I'm way more active and have had far less downtime the past few weeks.

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Re: ed flatline no really interest in oposite sex slight touch of hocd
« Reply #3 on: June 05, 2014, 06:03:06 AM »
Cheer lads I meant to mention im 26 now would that be a problem if you have be suffering with ed since then cheers for the comments anyway I was getting morning woods for awhile but no now my porn addiction was pretty bad I suppose hopefully 90 days will show some change because its affecting me in life im in my head the hole time.

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Re: ed flatline no really interest in oposite sex slight touch of hocd
« Reply #4 on: June 09, 2014, 09:03:41 PM »
Broke my streak guys I blame the flatline for this one 2 months and still flat lining

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Re: ed flatline no really interest in oposite sex slight touch of hocd
« Reply #5 on: June 10, 2014, 03:33:44 PM »
I think it's completely normal to be flatlining for two months, I believe Gabe flatlined for 9 months.  Don't count the days just keep on the road to recovery.

Why did you end up relapsing?  Trigger or were you testing yourself?
In order to rise from its own ashes, a Phoenix first must burn.”
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Re: ed flatline no really interest in oposite sex slight touch of hocd
« Reply #6 on: June 29, 2014, 11:39:16 AM »
Well thanks im starting again my life is a mess I need my life back even tho I hate to admit it im letting life pass me by so day 1 of progress starts again fuck porn it has ruined my brain

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Re: ed flatline no really interest in oposite sex slight touch of hocd
« Reply #7 on: June 29, 2014, 12:00:20 PM »
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Porn has not "ruined" your brain, it has changed it. Be patient, stay strong, and see the reboot process through. It will get better with time.
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