Heavy Porn user....Clean for 6 months....Had sex first time in life.....Did well

Hey guys! I want to share a success story! I am a 26yr old virgin and have had a severe porn addiction problem. I last watched porn on May 11, 2015. I have been clean for 172 days, no PMO very few peeks at porn/nude images(negligible). For the first 85 days of my reboot I was clean other than a nightfall. I MOed around day 80. And since then I have 3-4 orgasms a month(MO/Strip Club Lap dance)......I just got laid now....I was able to maintain an erection using a condom and managed to come. This was my first time and I am happy that years of porn use though have made things difficult, by staying clean we can achieve success. However the sensation in my penis was less than masturbation generally brings...But things were good.... I was really scared I would not be able to get it up! So all the Porn users out there trying to quit, Keep at it! Things will get better!

I am attaching my spreadsheet below. Jan, Feb, Mar i spent binge watching porn...Lost track of PMOs........
April went clean, relapsed in May...and have been clean since May.....
 

nigel

Member
this is great.  congrats.  and good work

one word from someone a bit older.  Be careful not to slip into too much of a sexual pattern-(not for ED reasons from porn), but just cause it is not the best thing either ,  in the long run, even if you get it up every single time. i totally know its tempting

Just saying for later on, next year etc.  the best thing is a good relationship with a good woman- not strip clubs, or one nighters.

good work again- good luck bro!!

 
Thank you people! Nigel I completely hear you. I am working at that! Just the bottomline I wanted to share is that no matter how bad your day is going....Things eventually do get better...Keep going at it!
 

nannitac

Member
Nigel is right... be carefull to do not fall in strip clubs and prostitutes to escape from porn, even if you are doing sex in reality it is a kind of substitute of porn.
8 years ago i falled in the same trap, i was thinking that go to escort and strip club was a good way to escape from porn since it was real sex, i ended up to be addicted to them. Becouse of that today i am still struggling to find a serious committed relationship.
Stay focus on girls of real life and flirt with girls that could be a potential partner, i know, at the beginning is challenging specially after several years of porn.
Frequent strip clubs and date prostitutes is like a substitute for flirting with real girls, you control relation becouse you give them money...
 
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