Hi everyone,
My case seems pretty straight-forward. When I was a teen (15-18) and was not masturbating and looking very occasionally at porn, I had rock-hard erections, sometimes so strong and immediate at the smallest stimulus that it was embarrassing and annoying. Then at 19 I started masturbating, with and without porn. Now I only masturbate to porn, regularly but not more than a usual teen (3-6 times a week). It's hard to get arouse from touching alone, and when I do I sometimes climax without an erection and the pleasure is insignificant and brief. I tried to have sex with my fianc?e, which I am in a 6 months relationship with, but I was unable to have a durable erection, as my pitiful erection died when I put on the condom. At the beginning of the "process" when I'm undressing her, discovering her body, I get decent but very fragile erections. But after cuddling a bit, oral sex (me to her) and other foreplay stuff, my sex drive, though existent, is not powerful enough to procure the glorious erection I would need for actual sex. It happened repeatedly.
Now to my porn problem. I do watch porn since 14 but not regularly. I started correlating porn and masturbating a few months ago. But I don't fit into the escalation pattern I come across in the stories on the website. I never watched hardcore stuff! My porn is so mild it wouldn't be considered porn by many of you. It's an eclectic mix of nude pictures, softcore home-made videos (with girls stripping or showering, in the most extreme cases fingering themselves), educational videos about anatomy, underwear ads, more risqu? movie scenes, etc. Nowhere like deviant extreme stuff. What I do with my flesh and bone partner is actually more aggressive!
So why the ED, give that I don't seem to have the profile of a porn addict...
I'm a healthy 20 years old, practice sports and lift weights, have a good diet (no fast food, lots of meat and vegetables, cartloads of fruits, no alcohol and smoking and drugs). So is PIED the name of the problem. Thanks for your help guys!
My case seems pretty straight-forward. When I was a teen (15-18) and was not masturbating and looking very occasionally at porn, I had rock-hard erections, sometimes so strong and immediate at the smallest stimulus that it was embarrassing and annoying. Then at 19 I started masturbating, with and without porn. Now I only masturbate to porn, regularly but not more than a usual teen (3-6 times a week). It's hard to get arouse from touching alone, and when I do I sometimes climax without an erection and the pleasure is insignificant and brief. I tried to have sex with my fianc?e, which I am in a 6 months relationship with, but I was unable to have a durable erection, as my pitiful erection died when I put on the condom. At the beginning of the "process" when I'm undressing her, discovering her body, I get decent but very fragile erections. But after cuddling a bit, oral sex (me to her) and other foreplay stuff, my sex drive, though existent, is not powerful enough to procure the glorious erection I would need for actual sex. It happened repeatedly.
Now to my porn problem. I do watch porn since 14 but not regularly. I started correlating porn and masturbating a few months ago. But I don't fit into the escalation pattern I come across in the stories on the website. I never watched hardcore stuff! My porn is so mild it wouldn't be considered porn by many of you. It's an eclectic mix of nude pictures, softcore home-made videos (with girls stripping or showering, in the most extreme cases fingering themselves), educational videos about anatomy, underwear ads, more risqu? movie scenes, etc. Nowhere like deviant extreme stuff. What I do with my flesh and bone partner is actually more aggressive!
So why the ED, give that I don't seem to have the profile of a porn addict...
I'm a healthy 20 years old, practice sports and lift weights, have a good diet (no fast food, lots of meat and vegetables, cartloads of fruits, no alcohol and smoking and drugs). So is PIED the name of the problem. Thanks for your help guys!