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gobigorgohome

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3 months into rebooting
« on: April 26, 2015, 09:48:48 PM »
Hi guys,
This is my first post in Reboot Nation. How is everyone doing with your progress? I am here to share my reboot progress so far and I know it is still quite a long way to go but I hope my story helps any of you in any way, and I would be very thankful too if some of you can share your own experience/tips/advice with me. Here is my story:

Like most of you guys, I decided to start rebooting because of my PIED. I was frustrated and devastated as I was looking at a gorgeous girl on my bed and I had zero boner no matter how much I wanted to make it happen. Up until that point, I had sexual experience twice with two different girls but my boner always went limp after a few minutes and i basically just forced myself to orgasm to get it over with. Before that, I already came across yourbrainonporn.com but I did not fully believe the theory on the website until I finally had to admit to myself that porn was indeed the only reason I fucked up my brain. Now i still feel like a fucking virgin because i had never enjoyed any sexual experience in my life. Thus, my reboot journey began.

For the first few days, it was really really tough, I could not sleep, the urge was strong as hell. There were nights where I just stayed up the whole night as my subconscious was craving for something stimulating as usual, but my conscious forcefully stopped myself. After 2 weeks, I got over the urges as i was getting used to the idea that porn was not even an option anymore (the most important mindset to have - PORN IS NOT AN OPTION NO MATTER WHAT!). I went through a long flatline period (about 4-5 weeks) as i knew I did not have the option to look at a naked body on my laptop, thus the urge stopped and my labito dropped to zero. Had my wet dream after 3 weeks of non-PMO (for the first time since 6 years ago when I started PMO and got hooked to it). After that, it is just a constant cycle of: flatline - motivated to live my life - high sex drive (but no way to release it) - depression - flatline - motivated to live my life again - REPEAT. There are good days and bad days but so far it's been trending to a better direction after every cycle.

Now finally i got to 90 days, but i have been facing a lot of strong urges - not to look at naked girls but to fuck one. This is probably one of the toughest moments in my reboot progress as I keep looking for ways to get laid and eventually i will find myself browsing escort websites, even though i know i am not supposed to do that. The past week has been pretty tough and mostly filled with bad days (strong urges, browsing escort websites and feeling guilty afterwards, looking at my hard dick but not sure if it would work if there was a real girl beside me, etc.) .

That is all for my reboot story for now. I hope after writing this post I will feel better, get over it and focus on my goals more sharply from now on. Thanks for reading my story and I wish you rebooters the best of luck. Remember that you are not alone in this deep shit and there is always light at the end of the tunnel. Even though I dont see it yet but let's just hang tight and do it one day at a time. Take care!

[feel free to leave a comment and share your opinion/experience. I will reply as much as I can]

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Re: 3 months into rebooting
« Reply #1 on: April 26, 2015, 11:26:12 PM »
Is there no dating type sites in your area?  Escorts seem a drastic way to solve the problem but some random woman seems alot better.  When I was younger it seemed like all of the chicks on those sites were ready, might be the same for you....
My wife told me to be a participant not a voyeur, I think we should all do this.

Watched "Hot Girls Wanted", all us guys should.

gobigorgohome

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Re: 3 months into rebooting
« Reply #2 on: April 27, 2015, 02:33:15 AM »
i have never tried a dating site before. do the chicks usually just get right down to business? it's good idea tho might give it a try. thanks lol

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Re: 3 months into rebooting
« Reply #3 on: April 27, 2015, 08:17:56 AM »
Some do on the first date and most will by the third.  It's all luck of the draw.  Normally you have to chat online first and then go on a date but some sites have a casual encounter area.   Wrap up, be a stud and fuck some women.
My wife told me to be a participant not a voyeur, I think we should all do this.

Watched "Hot Girls Wanted", all us guys should.

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Re: 3 months into rebooting
« Reply #4 on: April 27, 2015, 08:21:41 AM »
Just make sure shes clean. You dont want to get all this renewed sexual prowess from rebooting only to have it lost because shes got a cunt like a septic tank.
And also make sure its legal. Some of these dating site chicks are into some weird wild stuff.
Un-fuck your life, quit porn now! Today!

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Re: 3 months into rebooting
« Reply #5 on: May 03, 2015, 07:36:18 AM »
I don't see much difference between prostitutes and porn.

They are both about instant gratification.

You need to find someone you have an emotional connection with.

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Re: 3 months into rebooting
« Reply #6 on: May 07, 2015, 06:19:30 AM »
first- thank you for your story. it helped me to read it today.
i must warn u a bit from dating sites, when i was trying to quit porn last time i opened an account in one, and soon it became a porn substituted for me.
the idea of clicking and looking on more and more girls photos was too close to the problem i had.
 a friend told me that in worst case, it is better to just M with out any material and not to go on any site. and about escorting- well, i know too many guys that became addicted to that as well- and it's worst and more dangerous (and expansive) then porn E.

i'm sure that u will meet someone soon and that this is only a part in your journey.
wish u good luck.