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Re: **Accountability Partner Requests**
« Reply #25 on: July 19, 2015, 09:47:58 PM »
Hey guys.. Already has a journal : http://www.rebootnation.org/forum/index.php?topic=5097

Available for accountability partner, so we can help each other and find answers in our struggles.

Cheers.

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Re: **Accountability Partner Requests**
« Reply #26 on: July 28, 2015, 12:53:15 PM »
Hey guys. Ive been on Reboot Nation for about 19 days now and working this recovery hard. That being said, we cannot do this alone. I am ready for an accountability partner. Someone in the US who doesnt mind checking in via messaging. Not even sure how it would work but it would be nice to have someone to reach out to when the going gets tough.
Thanks

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Re: **Accountability Partner Requests**
« Reply #27 on: July 31, 2015, 04:40:42 AM »
Hi there,

I'm 39 yrs old, married, no children. I live in the Netherlands. Watching porn on and off  for 13 yrs now. When on it's disturbing my busy life as a comsultant, PhD-student and husband. I'm trying to quit, but didn't succeed in my first attempt to be abstinent for 90 days. I failed at approx. 55 days, I guess. Now I'm trying in smaller steps, 30 at a time.

I would like an AP and be an AP for someone who's interested.

Regards, Matteo




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Re: **Accountability Partner Requests**
« Reply #28 on: August 11, 2015, 05:14:25 AM »
Hi I'm 32 yrs old married with 3 kids and have been trying to quit for nearly 4 months. Longest stint I've had off was 35 days then minor lapses but now I feel I'm back at square 1 and don't feel strong enough to do it without accountability so please get in touch I could do with the help.

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Re: **Accountability Partner Requests**
« Reply #29 on: August 17, 2015, 04:35:56 AM »
Hey I'm also 32, father and husband. Been on this site for a while but maybe a partner could be one more piece of the puzzle I need. Message me if interested.

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Re: **Accountability Partner Requests**
« Reply #30 on: August 19, 2015, 05:11:59 PM »
I'm 33 years old, have a wife, and been watching porn since Im teenage.
I have failed couple of time, I think becouse I don't have Accountability partner, so here Iam, need one.
Pm me, I'm from Indonesia.

Thank you.
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Re: **Accountability Partner Requests**
« Reply #31 on: September 13, 2015, 08:53:49 AM »
18 months ago I quit drinking and doing drugs and undergo therapy

9 months ago I found out that I have addiction problem mostly with pornography (and with masturbation as well)

decided to quit and quickly found out that this is the hardest battle in my life

managed to have 23 clean streak but mostly I found out in 5-7 days cycles (then going back to relapse every 1/2 days, and then after few weeks going back to decission and starting over)

my defence mechanisms were strony, even now I'm being delusional about "this is not huge problem for me, and I don't see downsides"

however my life hurts, my GF left me and now I'm sure that my mood is affected with guild, mind-fog and lack of motivation when I'm on active addiction

whatever it takes I decided to crush first two weeks and then go for full 30 days and quit my pit of despair

Looking for accountability partner. My journal starts here: http://www.rebootnation.org/forum/index.php?topic=6334.0

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Re: **Accountability Partner Requests**
« Reply #32 on: October 04, 2015, 11:58:29 PM »
I'm a 32 year old guy, who has been married for about 6 years. I had my porn addition since 2002, but didn't care much to cure it. Actually I didn't even bother to acknowledge it as a problem. I tried quitting once in 2014, but I was not serious enough, and I was able to convince myself that it's not a problem and "everybody does it." So, I resumed doing it after a month or so. This time I'm trying to make some real changes in my life, and become a better human being, for myself and my family. I'm doing some reading, some thinking and none of PMO. The last time I masturbated was on 14th July 2015. I'm not counting days, but instead trying to make some real changes in my life. My goal is overall improvement of wellbeing focused on outlook towards women, concentration, time-management, stress management, and to have a more fulfilling life. I'm looking for an accountability partner who is motivated and has similar sort of goal. I will be available to support you in tough times, and would love to receive the same when I really need it.

I have started keeping a journal here: http://www.rebootnation.org/forum/index.php?topic=6579.0

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Re: **Accountability Partner Requests**
« Reply #33 on: October 12, 2015, 12:26:11 AM »
I would like some accountability partners. Please private message me.

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Re: **Accountability Partner Requests**
« Reply #34 on: October 17, 2015, 03:06:44 AM »
Hi everybody!
I'm a 34 man struggling with PMO addiction since when I was, about, 15. I joined this forum three days ago, and I'm in my third day of reboot, this is a struggling battle, but I'm sure not a thing like this can be done alone!

Searching for an accountability partner! If you're interested, please message me in private!

Here is my journal: http://www.rebootnation.org/forum/index.php?topic=6736.0

My goal? 365 PMO free days!  :)
« Last Edit: October 17, 2015, 03:11:00 AM by cr4wZ80 »
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Re: **Accountability Partner Requests**
« Reply #35 on: October 25, 2015, 05:44:28 AM »
I would like an accountability partner and I am more than willing to help out several brothers in need. If you want to be my accountability partner, I recommend you read my journal first (at least the first post) so that you understand my view on recovering. If you agree, or you want to learn more about my philosophy, then let's help each other out! :) I'm in the Central European Time zone if that's relevant.

On a separate note; If anyone in the younger forums (teens or 20-29) needs an older, maybe more experienced, forum member to help them out, I'm available, but I don't know if this is a thing on this forum? If not I think it should be... If anybody knows then let me know!

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Re: **Accountability Partner Requests**
« Reply #36 on: October 25, 2015, 09:46:15 AM »
31 y/o Male. Joined today. I would like an acountability partner if anyone is out there?

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Re: **Accountability Partner Requests**
« Reply #37 on: October 26, 2015, 09:16:20 AM »
Hi NewMe!

I like your proposal, if you wanna be my accountability partner, read your PMs, I sent you one!
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Re: **Accountability Partner Requests**
« Reply #38 on: December 25, 2015, 02:45:13 PM »
I am 38, single gay male and an addict to PMO for around 20 years. I have attempted a reboot several times over the past couple years but want to make this one stick. If anyone is interested in being an accountability partner I would love that. Thanks!

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Re: **Accountability Partner Requests**
« Reply #39 on: January 03, 2016, 10:56:53 AM »
34 yo PIED on and off for years
Making a serious effort to quit now.
I have a job that can be very demanding, which makes it more difficult.


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Re: **Accountability Partner Requests**
« Reply #40 on: February 03, 2016, 03:43:49 PM »
Hello, I'm 31 and I need an accountability partner.
I just started today this process and I feel that having a partner would really help.
Thanks :)

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Re: **Accountability Partner Requests**
« Reply #41 on: February 19, 2016, 08:15:40 AM »
Hi I just discovered this forum. I really really want to give up porn. I've been trying for years sometime even managing a few months clean but I've always fallen back. I'm in a bad spell at the moment and I think having an accountability partner would help. I can't talk to anyone I know in real life!

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« Reply #42 on: March 19, 2016, 08:24:45 PM »
Hey guys,

31 y/o, married with an almost 5 y/o son. Been using porn since my teens.

I've tried kicking it numberous times over the years, as my wife has never been okay with it. Got caught again last week and was told that if it happens again she's taking my boy and leaving.

I'm at day 7 and haven't had it too rough yet, but I know my time will come and am looking for a friend to help get through this.

My wife to her eternal credit has been amazing with trying to help me as well, she found this site. But she doesn't understand what it's like to be on this side, and I'm glad she doesn't.

Thanks guys. I'll get my journal going here shortly.
PMO free since Mar 12, 2016

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Re: **Accountability Partner Requests**
« Reply #43 on: March 30, 2016, 12:48:48 PM »
Hi everyone, I'd like to have an accountability buddy, just to chat to and to keep me motivated on this journey.
I'm 35, creative guy (if these stats make a difference?) LOL.
Anyone who wants to chat let me know!
Thanks :-)
« Last Edit: April 09, 2016, 05:02:56 PM by creativerebooter »

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Re: **Accountability Partner Requests**
« Reply #44 on: April 01, 2016, 10:11:42 AM »
33, married, looking for accountability, support, and a brother in this fight.

*Edit, I have an accountability partner now. Thanks!
« Last Edit: April 02, 2016, 01:23:28 PM by MichaelBrad23 »


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Re: **Accountability Partner Requests**
« Reply #45 on: April 15, 2016, 10:18:43 AM »
Hi, I am a new member, Just discovered this today. I am 33 and engaged to be married. This addiction is starting to rule my life and I need to get it under control as soon as possible. Im looking for an accountability partner and someone to talk to who understands this.

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« Reply #46 on: May 07, 2016, 10:47:11 AM »
Hi, I am 36, married, looking for accountability partner. I want to break free of this beast.

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Re: **Accountability Partner Requests**
« Reply #47 on: May 29, 2016, 07:49:53 PM »
Hi I'm 32, married for months.

I had a streak of 60 days before but relapsed.  Again struggling with a lack of sexual appetite and PIED.

Looking for an accountability partner.

Cheers,
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Re: **Accountability Partner Requests**
« Reply #48 on: June 22, 2016, 03:59:33 PM »
Hi! I'm 30, in a serious relationship.

I've abstained from porn and masturbation since father's day, June 19. It's definitely not easy, but I'm doing it! The benefits have convinced me!

I'll take an accountability partner!

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« Reply #49 on: June 25, 2016, 04:40:37 AM »
Hello!

I'm 32, been single for the past 12 years. I came to realization that something wasn't quite right with my life and found that many things on here and YBOP resonated with what was going on with me so here I am. First day and already it's not easy. Looking for someone that i can count on to keep me accountable, and if I can help with him / her that would be good too.

Regards.

***Update****
Got an accountability partner. Happy journeys on all of your paths to recovery.
« Last Edit: July 09, 2016, 08:49:17 PM by tenjyou »