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7ea7a

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porn. isnt the problem !
« on: April 20, 2014, 12:01:36 PM »
Today I discovered I ain't addicted to open I am 2weeks. clean I don't feel the urge to watch and I dont need the problem is masturbation I can barely hold it for 10 days then boom relapse (still no porn).   can anyone help Me please I am sick of beatin meat

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Re: porn. isnt the problem !
« Reply #1 on: April 27, 2014, 10:39:15 PM »
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Today I discovered I ain't addicted to open I am 2weeks. clean I don't feel the urge to watch and I dont need the problem is masturbation I can barely hold it for 10 days then boom relapse (still no porn).

Well if you can easily avoid porn, and can easily maintain an erection without porn or porn fantasy, then you probably are not addicted and it seems as if you do not have PIED. A few things for you:

  • You may not be addicted
  • We only consider intentionally watching porn a relapse. Masturbating is not a relapse, as long as you do not use porn or porn fantasy. However, it is wise, and highly suggested to stay away from masturbation during a reboot and maybe indefinitely.
  • It seems you do not have PIED. Unless when you masturbated to porn or porn fantasy.
  • You may be in a small "flatline" where your desire for porn or sex is down, and your addicted brain is trying to justify masturbation. Just speculation. I am only giving possible reasons you feel the way you do.

If masturbation is what you are trying to avoid, then most of the advice on this forum would still apply to you. Get busy doing healthy things and use your energy on going after what you want in life, not on fighting what you don't want.
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