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johnperkins

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loss of libido before reboot!! worried!
« on: April 19, 2014, 01:36:06 AM »
Im male 22. Masturbting to porn on a daily basis or on amnexcesss since 6 years. Though before I discovered masturbation I enjoued looking at pictures of girls at around 12 or 13.

During last 3 years-  I was watching porn and masturbating daily. I noticed decline in my libido gradually. In dese 3 years..I jad an oppurtunity with 3 girls- my penis was erect completely and I sustained erection too. But actuall touching didnt appeal to me as much porn did.

I had urges for masturbation instead of sex. I always thought Masturbation to be bad..though it was always accompanied with porn.

1.5 months back- I decided to quit masturbation. Though I was only able to do it for 6 days. Im between I used to watch porn and remember getting a rock hard erection. I was so satisfies that I again started masturbating to porn

One jus after a day or two..I realized that my erection wasnt as hard like rock hard solid. Also as soon as I ejaculated..it went down slowly.  That alarmed me and I startes my reebot.

Today is day 33 of reboot- no porn and no masturbation. Though when I go to market some times..amd I see a hot girl..I gen an urge to masturbate rather than wanting to sleep with her.

Regarding my morning erections..I have them whenever I get up during my sleep. But not when I get up. They are not that hard. Im worried about the hardness. Where did it go suddenly. And my libido is also veryyy lowww.

Porn had directed my brain in a way that urge for real sex isnt der. Urge only for masturbation.

Please I would appreciate your answers..

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Re: loss of libido before reboot!! worried!
« Reply #1 on: April 19, 2014, 11:51:54 PM »
Don't worry about. You're just in a libido flatline. Getting the urge to masturbate to the image of hot women is your natural route to orgasm because you've trained yourself that way. Instead of focusing on fapping... maybe approach the woman and say hello. That will help train your brain to seek satisfaction from a real woman. I'm not an expert, but it makes sense to me. And congrats on going over 30 days without fapping. You're on the right track. Best of luck brother!

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Re: loss of libido before reboot!! worried!
« Reply #2 on: April 29, 2014, 08:26:27 PM »
Don't worry about. You're just in a libido flatline. Getting the urge to masturbate to the image of hot women is your natural route to orgasm because you've trained yourself that way. Instead of focusing on fapping... maybe approach the woman and say hello. That will help train your brain to seek satisfaction from a real woman. I'm not an expert, but it makes sense to me. And congrats on going over 30 days without fapping. You're on the right track. Best of luck brother!

What he said  8)