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Redfire03

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Re: 700 days of hardmode.
« Reply #25 on: March 19, 2020, 12:36:20 PM »
700 days i have surpassed. Still not any noticable improvements physically.  Mentally I am all good, porn is gone... has not been a desire.. I just gym, work,eat, sleep. I have had sex twice, but they were not satisfying. I wouldnt even consider it sex really. Really thinking of ways to better things and possibly give up on try to have sex and just see if things just take its course over time. Really just dont want to have to deal with the humiliation.

My morning wood had decreased for awhile and I believe that was because I had logged back on to social media for awhile and recently I got back off. The Hits of dopamine are noticed while scrolling thru social media and seeing an attractive person. Just not ideal.

At night when i lay in bed and my penis as always just feels dead, not any sensation really just the floppy piece of jellow..... just feels numb.. I can play with myself for a few minutes and manage to get it hard. But it wont stay hard to long without constant attention... really just trying to figure out if i am actually long termed damaged. My dick just feels lifeless.

Really just unsure about my sex life or even if I want to try to please a woman anymore.  I have become content with how my life is and I just live for my passion in cars and my kids. I think i dont need a woman anymore and just be happy with the life I have created and just see where it takes me. Please chime in.

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Re: 700 days of hardmode.
« Reply #26 on: March 22, 2020, 03:26:24 PM »
http://www.rebootnation.org/forum/index.php?topic=10800.msg111262#msg111262

Don't give up Redfire, I know you know that and at this point we really can't give up, porn and masturbation is essentially pointless. But if anything you have noticed improvements so its clear something is improving. Did you use viagra when you had sex? How many orgasms did you have?

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Re: 700 days of hardmode.
« Reply #27 on: March 23, 2020, 03:31:43 AM »
I think, when it comes to rewiring, one benefits immensily from having a steady partner and ongoing sex. Because I think the problem is twofold: PIED goes hand-in-hand with performance anxiety or general confusion and nervousness. I remember, the first few times I had sex after the initial rebooting phase were very rocky. I was totally unsure if I would have an erection and I was grabbing my own dick several times to see if it was hard because I couldn't really feel it. Moreover, I was always very hectic when putting on a condom because I thought my erections would fade. Switiching positions did not even cross my mind because of that, too. After a while, I became used to all that and the sex also got a lot better because I started focussing on enjoying it and making it enjoyable for my partner instead of just not failing.

Don't give up just yet. As a gym rat you know that repetitions are crucial for growth ;)
400 days clean and counting...

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Re: 700 days of hardmode.
« Reply #28 on: May 26, 2020, 06:01:09 AM »
More sex has led me to better erections (but also more orgasms and orgasms lead to cravings to masturbate)

I'd keep trying having sex, it'll get better :)

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Re: 700 days of hardmode.
« Reply #29 on: May 29, 2020, 08:28:07 AM »
(but also more orgasms and orgasms lead to cravings to masturbate)

I think getting your brain used to multiple ejaculation through P makes it rebel against "only once". Maybe this is where that chaser effect comes from.