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« Reply #50 on: April 10, 2015, 03:08:22 PM »
, but I'm struggling with the fact that I get a full erection, but have problems maintaining it when it comes to sex. It's literally the moment before entering her vagina when the erection fails. I also noticed that I would be really horny and ready to enter her, but as soon as the genitals are about to touch, I lose all stamina.


I think it might because of stress not because of P. Dont You think so?

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« Reply #51 on: April 10, 2015, 03:14:21 PM »
so you didn't had sex with her ?
if you abstain from masturbation and orgasm, can that help you with your PIED problem?

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« Reply #52 on: April 10, 2015, 06:25:45 PM »
Definitely stress and/or anxiety. I don't think p has much to do with it anymore.

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« Reply #53 on: April 10, 2015, 09:10:07 PM »
try to avoid masturbation as well. that might help you too.

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« Reply #54 on: April 14, 2015, 03:50:35 PM »
try to avoid masturbation as well. that might help you too.

Hey mtaha!

Thanks for your many replies in this forum! It's great to get some posititve feedback and valuable tips. I see that you are really struggling. Is there any way I can help you with your reboot?

There are so many ways we can push ourselves to overcome pmo, that  it's great to have get a reminder of the basics every now and then.
I have found that one month without mo is too much, it just makes me too anxious. I must say however, that m calms me, but also dulls my stamina. Therefore, I will try to go with 2-week stretches of no mo and see what  it does for me :)

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« Reply #55 on: April 14, 2015, 03:55:45 PM »
Hey miomio

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I have found that one month without mo is too much, it just makes me too anxious.

I find the same, what I find is another outlet to get rid of the anxiety. For example if I'm feeling really anxious as haven't M'd in a while I'l go to the gym and really push myself or I'l go for a long walk/drive.
Just something to think about man.

Kee up the good work ;)

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« Reply #56 on: April 15, 2015, 03:18:15 PM »
Hey miomio

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I have found that one month without mo is too much, it just makes me too anxious.

I find the same, what I find is another outlet to get rid of the anxiety. For example if I'm feeling really anxious as haven't M'd in a while I'l go to the gym and really push myself or I'l go for a long walk/drive.
Just something to think about man.

Kee up the good work ;)

Thanks for the input. I may just go for another month after exams.

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« Reply #57 on: April 16, 2015, 02:28:57 PM »
Hey there MioMio.

Congratz on the progress man.
After I'm finally done with that 90 day hard mode, finding the right balance of MO will be a problem for me as well. I was trying to find it some monthsago but was dealing with the chaser effect!

Keep up the good work! :)


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« Reply #58 on: April 17, 2015, 01:09:37 PM »
Hey there MioMio.

Congratz on the progress man.
After I'm finally done with that 90 day hard mode, finding the right balance of MO will be a problem for me as well. I was trying to find it some monthsago but was dealing with the chaser effect!

Keep up the good work! :)

Thanks for your reply. It has kept me from M'ing today. I already feel tension building up, but at the moment it still feels good.

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« Reply #59 on: April 18, 2015, 06:38:03 AM »
Hey MioMio,

Just getting around to reading your journal. It was very well written and documents a lot of useful information so thank you for that. I am happy for you that you have overcome your P addiction. You also seem to have the right mindset about loosing your virginity. When it happens it will happen so there is no point in forcing it, otherwise it may loose is speciality too you.

I also picked up some useful advice for dealing with the no MO (Long walk, drive, gym session)

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« Reply #60 on: April 19, 2015, 03:56:16 AM »
Thanks for your support!

I see that you are a fellow motorcylist. What kind of bike do you ride?
I started riding nine months ago on a BMW F800GS Adventure and I am currently in the process of switching to a 1200 GS.
Riding my motorcycle has been a major outlet. On winter days it was especially intense, since my body  would fight the cold and my mind was able to shut off, only concentrating on the street. Somehow, riding has a very meditative effect on me and helps me to leave all the city stress behind. In fact, I love to spend hours over hours on my bike and see where it may take me.

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« Reply #61 on: April 19, 2015, 02:30:37 PM »
riding bike is extremely good for porn addicts.
wonderful activity. I wish I had one. it is fun. driving car isn't fun, but riding bike is fun.

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« Reply #62 on: April 19, 2015, 03:41:38 PM »
Thanks for your support!

I see that you are a fellow motorcylist. What kind of bike do you ride?
I started riding nine months ago on a BMW F800GS Adventure and I am currently in the process of switching to a 1200 GS.
Riding my motorcycle has been a major outlet. On winter days it was especially intense, since my body  would fight the cold and my mind was able to shut off, only concentrating on the street. Somehow, riding has a very meditative effect on me and helps me to leave all the city stress behind. In fact, I love to spend hours over hours on my bike and see where it may take me.

At the moment a CB250 nighthawk, but I am working on rebuilding a CB500. Money is tight for me with college and rent and only a part time job to feed me so nothing to lavish at the moment. But yeh it is nice to get away, especially with nice weather. Makes it so much more pleasurable to ride. I find myself thinking a lot on the bike though (which I know is not good because your mind should be 100% on the road) and sometimes the isolation gets to me.

As I work 7 days a week and commute at least 2 hours each day on the bike its been a while since I went out for a pleasure spin, I should really get that on my to-do list one of these days and see how it goes.