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Evaluation of my progress
« on: October 09, 2019, 05:12:27 AM »
Hey guys,

I've been rebooting for exactly one year now and I think some feedback and evaluation would help me. One year ago, I removed all porn from my life and abstained from masturbation but I did have sex once in a while for three months or so. Then, I turned to a hard reboot for five months approximately, so no sex any more (which was hard because I'm in a relationship).

After that time, I reintroduced sex with orgasms. The reason was that it simply felt right to try it again and it worked well and I had a lot of fun. I realised that my erections lasted longer but I had the fear of losing my boner almost every time. Before my reboot, I went flaccid almost immediately after stimulation stopped.

Now, again several months after allowing myself to have sex, I am much more (not completely, however) relaxed about everything. When I'm in the mood (which I not always am) I get 50-90% erections from kissing and from her touching my body (not my dick). Her body feels wayyyyy hotter than ever before. The duration of the erections varies, sometimes they last longer, sometimes they go down a little when I eat her out, for example, so when I'm not stimulated physically.

However, I don't get spontaneous erections throughout the day, I don't get hard only from looking at her naked body (although I really enjoy it more than before my reboot). When I think about sex especially when I'm still in bed in the morning I sometimes do get a boner, sometimes I don't. I feel like masturbating once in a while and occasionally, I do it but always without porn. After sex, I think I experience a slight chaser effect, but I can control it. Sometimes, I don't feel like having sex so much for a few days, which might or might not be a symptom of a flatline.

This is all for now. What do you think? Am I on the right track? Did/Do you experience anything similar to this? If I go on like this, will it get (even) better?

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Re: Evaluation of my progress
« Reply #1 on: October 09, 2019, 06:17:49 PM »
try going on nofap. masturbation is the bridge connecting you to your porn addiction. burn the bridge and you will be moving more steadily forward to where you wanna go instead of going a step back from time to time.
My last relapse: 03.Oct.2019 // My total # of relapses in the last 30 days: 10+