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Can girlfriends flatline?


i_miss_my_ bf:
Hi....I don't want to go into the whole story because it's so similar to most of what I've read here. We just started his reboot a couple of weeks ago. He wants to keep trying having sex and I don't anymore. Every time.we try, he's hard until he gets inside me and then goes soft. I want to go at his pace and try what he's comfortable with, but every time this happens, I'm left feeling inadequate. At this point, I don't have a sexual appetite at all. To be honest, thinking about trying makes me a little sick to my stomach. I love him so much and miss our voracious sex life but I'm not sure I can get through this. If I turn him down, then he feels rejected. I feel lost, alone and stuck. I think I'm the one flatlining. I want to be supportive of him and work things through but also guard my own broken heart. Has anyone else experienced these feelings?

Biggest question have you both had a good sex life together before he had an issue?


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