I wish there was more insight on this 8 years ago when it started for me. It's been a ruff day today knowing about the coach hurt me more than knowing she cheated on me. I have held back all day and wondered how to handle it. I wanted to reach out to her and tell her to stop. But I can not speak to her directly, it's very sad and unfortunate. Just wish things were different and I hate that I let her down. But I think we both just let each other down. I try to stay very active on here for this reason.