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jhonjordan

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Hi New Relationships: new attempt
« on: May 23, 2020, 01:27:15 PM »
Hi, my name is Juan

In 2020 I discovered this site but since then I have not been able to overcome this addiction.
I don't care I'll try again
In all this year I have masturbated about 15 times, most of the time using porn videos. For some reason or another I end up masturbating again and that has frustrated me. However I know I am trying and it is a big step for me.
So my next strategy will be to use this journal and be able to write how I feel daily.
I think the best thing is not to look back and keep going that what is coming is very good.

Day 1 (4 days without PMO)


I feel good, and I want to talk to you about the pressure of the social environment on relationships. It bothers me that my friends ask me if I have been with a girl. My family also sometimes asks me why I don't have a girlfriend and I don't feel the courage to tell them what my problem is.
I have to find a way not to be asked any more since I don't feel good about it.

Thank you!


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Re: Hi New Relationships: new attempt
« Reply #1 on: May 23, 2020, 05:01:58 PM »
Hi Juan! I completely feel you!! I dont know what to say when my friends ask me when was the last time i had sex or if im chatting with a girl... i just tell them im prettty ok now and if it comes, it comes..
Good luck with your journey!! Stay strong!!!

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Re: Hi New Relationships: new attempt
« Reply #2 on: May 24, 2020, 08:04:11 AM »
Day 2 (5 days without PMO)

Hi blerasdcru! Thank you very much for the support, it is good to know that not only I feel this.

Today I feel good and I want to tell you a little more about my experience.

The time when I used to masturbate is at night before falling asleep. The main enemy is sleeplessness, if I can't sleep it is very difficult for me to avoid masturbating. One technique I use is to avoid using the cell phone and computer until late at night, I read in an article that this helps you fall asleep and it has worked for me. It is also important to avoid drinking Coca Cola or coffee at night. I wanted to share this with you.

Thank you!!

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Re: Hi New Relationships: new attempt
« Reply #3 on: May 25, 2020, 07:11:21 AM »
Day 3 (6 without PMO)

I didn't feel very well yesterday. I was very anxious. What happens is that I am in quarantine and I have not seen my family for a long time. However, on the positive side, I am having time to think and rest, which I needed. Last night I felt the need to masturbate but I did not and I am proud of it.

Thank you!

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Re: Hi New Relationships: new attempt
« Reply #4 on: Today at 06:44:03 AM »
Day 4 (7 without PMO)

Yesterday was the worst night in this last week, I had a hard time falling asleep and several times I thought about masturbating, however I did not. This made me wake up this morning with very good energy and a good mood. When I am aware of the effort I am making to achieve my goal, I become proud of myself.

Let's go!

Thank you!