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mpkl

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What are the best rewiring methods?
« on: February 21, 2019, 06:33:53 PM »
Well im in a relationship with that girl 2 weeks, have told her everything about my pied as we couldnt have sex and she told me that she will wait for me even on a 100 Day+ Hard Mode which made me more than just happy.
To her sacrifice i reboot myself and do everything in perfect in order to heal faster and better (exercise, study, diet, avoid high dopamine activities such as video games etc). In the period of 4 weeks (we were Just hanging out 2 weeks before we get into relationship) we spent most days together counting much time.
My question is how can i rewire my brain in a faster way when im with her?
I avoid orgasm she doesnt touch me a lot but we make out a lot too
Does make out helps or prevents rewiring?
What are the best methods to rewire in general?






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Re: What are the best rewiring methods?
« Reply #1 on: February 22, 2019, 12:01:37 AM »
Stay off all triggers. Social media is worse than you think. Facebook and instagram are huge triggers imo. Take a break from all electronics. Focus on you.

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Re: What are the best rewiring methods?
« Reply #2 on: February 22, 2019, 11:05:26 PM »
Im off social media for about 4 months not because i dont want any trigger but most because i got bored of this hyperstimulated marketing sht..i focus on my self fight now and i dont have any pressure to perform by my girlfriend she is too kind and she is willing to help me.. So in order to make most of this i got to know what helps the most i have no time to waste and i dont want our time to get missed...im so happy with her and i want to be cured not only physically but mentally to for her and myself to connect the most and live a happy life.. I dont see her hypersexualized. I Just want to live a life full of intimacy careness and love. Amen

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Re: What are the best rewiring methods?
« Reply #3 on: April 03, 2019, 05:08:00 AM »
Just focus on your relationship, think about her because it seems you don't want to lose her.  Try some exercise and mind relaxation techniques like meditation to increase the ability to focus the things nearer to you.

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Re: What are the best rewiring methods?
« Reply #4 on: April 14, 2019, 11:36:44 AM »
what do you all mean by trigger?

Redfire03

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Re: What are the best rewiring methods?
« Reply #5 on: April 14, 2019, 01:54:48 PM »
 Seeing a attractive woman and it trigger you to pmo or you feel yourself getting excited and you can feel your body change from the images. Henceforth a trigger that can lead to you pmo.

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Re: What are the best rewiring methods?
« Reply #6 on: April 14, 2019, 03:02:40 PM »
maybe it is kind of disrespectful to ask question in someone else's post,if so sorry for my behaviour,but if i see a beatiful woman or a soft porn image in the internet accidentally (like in a facebook post etc) do i relapse or make the reboot slower? can i play videogames during reboot? or watch anime? sorry if i'm asking nobody has responded me in this forum yet,if i'm doing something wrong i'll delete the post,thanks in advance

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Re: What are the best rewiring methods?
« Reply #7 on: April 14, 2019, 04:13:12 PM »
You will know what a trigger is you will feel it excite you. Normally if it's something I can control I just turn my head and think of something else really.

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Re: What are the best rewiring methods?
« Reply #8 on: April 15, 2019, 04:51:40 PM »
> if i see a beatiful woman or a soft porn image in the internet accidentally

An accidental glance doesn't count as a relapse IMO. Don't linger or let it draw you in and at all costs avoid any any sites that you know might show "soft porn".

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Re: What are the best rewiring methods?
« Reply #9 on: April 17, 2019, 12:38:33 PM »
thx for the reply! for *linger* you mean that because of that image I could get the urge to masturbate to it ?

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Re: What are the best rewiring methods?
« Reply #10 on: April 21, 2019, 01:24:17 AM »
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