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caplatt

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Questions from a newbie
« on: January 11, 2019, 10:36:36 PM »
Hi guys,
So I've been off porn for about a year, through the use of website logging services with an accountability partner. However, I still masturbate compulsively, at least once a day. When I watched porn, a lot of it was fetish-oriented, and now when I jack off I often think about that stuff rather than vanilla sex. If it's my second or third session of the day, it can be tough to get off if I'm not thinking about it. I really want to reboot and have healthier sexual appetites. My question is this. I have been trying to deliberately MO to vanilla fantasies in the hopes of retraining my brain through orgasm (for religious reasons, I do not plan on having sex until marriage). Is it healthier to do this, or to do my best to not MO at all? My concern is that if I don't MO to vanilla fantasies, then my brain will still be tuned to my fetishes when I have sex.
Also, I don't have a problem getting hard when I hug or cuddle with a girl. Is that an indicator that I don't have PIED? Again, virgin :P so I don't really know for sure. Any thoughts are appreciated. Keep strong guys!

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Re: Questions from a newbie
« Reply #1 on: January 14, 2019, 07:44:30 AM »
I think MO everyday it is not health and you are fantasizing anyway. Maybe you don't have problems at all, but knowing about this possible problem I will quiet MO