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hR_

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Help, I lost my reboot?
« on: May 13, 2019, 01:42:46 AM »
Hey guys, I'm new here and I need a big help, can I? Well, 14 days without PMO now! I met a girl last week and that's killing me, she immediately started chatting on whatsapp and telling me so many things about my voice (that's changed I think), saying how much her feel horny about my voice and me at all, and tonight she sends me semi nudes, audios masturbating, moaning and making me wonder a little about sex but I don't touched me any second! I'm sure I lost some dopamine(Can I get this back???) I feel my head shaking, but I lost my benefits? If I continue this chat for tomorrow and tomorrow I'll lose? I do not want this, I'm seriously making PMO, can you guys give me a light? Thank you guys!
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Re: Help, I lost my reboot?
« Reply #1 on: May 13, 2019, 03:00:29 PM »
This girl you've met is sending you porn.  Porn is hard to define, but it doesn't have to be complete strangers for it to be porn, it can still be people you know.  While it may seem like real flirting to her, and you're doing your best to accept it as flirting, it is porn.  You need to get out of that situation any way you can.  Tell her you like her but would rather hang out with her instead of hear her moaning/masturbatory noises.  Or, just walk away. 

As far as progress... well, 14 days is a really, really good streak.  It is definitely something to be proud of, since many people struggle with just a day or two.  If you can keep going, by all means keep going.  That said, you write your post as though you were rebooted and already reaping the benefits of quitting porn at 14 days.  You'll have a long way to go before all the healing can happen (at LEAST 80-90 days), so if you want to know if you "lost" everything, well... I don't think you were there just yet.

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Re: Help, I lost my reboot?
« Reply #2 on: May 13, 2019, 03:34:29 PM »
Thank you so much, mate, really helped me, so, the question is, she's really sending me nudes, and I'm avoiding anyway man, our distance is so good so I can't met her at all, but now, 14 days, I'm feeling energy, I see the girls looking at me, that not happened before with a strong way, is this I don't wanna lose you know? I know 14 days it's barely nothing, but is this man, I'll keep going, I don't want to stop, I'm sure, but I liked this girl, but her chat is 90% porn, idk anymore!!