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Thoughts on this?
« on: December 19, 2018, 02:15:42 PM »
Hey guys,

I was wondering the following - iv noticed that I'm always aroused at the idea of giving a blowjob but im not attracted to guys at all - iv thought about that extensively and not at all - but I'm currently rebooting after years of porn addiction, and my main (very predominantly) type of porn was women giving blowjobs

Iv read that as a result of porn addiction, you can develop fetishes or things that arouse you due to your porn addiction, which go away gradually as you successfully reboot

Is it possible that this is a result of my porn addiction?

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Re: Thoughts on this?
« Reply #2 on: December 19, 2018, 03:02:02 PM »
Ah thanks man, il give these a read!

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Re: Thoughts on this?
« Reply #3 on: December 23, 2018, 03:03:10 AM »
Hey RatGeezer     I went through much of the same stuff for years   total interest in fetishes  shemales  curiosity in being gay  exc  I started my reboot a year ago and have really improved my life although I have not reached the finish line quite yet   I know I am close

    The big thing is that over the last year my interest in these fetishes and topics has almost completely disappeared  and I feel so much better and don't even really think about them  anymore


   Keep working at it

     Post often  it helped me  it will help you

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Re: Thoughts on this?
« Reply #4 on: December 23, 2018, 04:03:02 PM »
Thanks man, that's reassuring to hear - and well done on being close to the finish line buddy, I know you can do it, you've got that finish line in sight now!

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Re: Thoughts on this?
« Reply #5 on: December 24, 2018, 12:57:46 AM »
Thanks Ratgezer

                               Another 2 days have gone by and I feel great   I don't have any gay thoughts at all anymore

    Cheers and  lets keep fighting the good fight

     Post often it helped me it helps you

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« Reply #6 on: December 24, 2018, 02:23:16 PM »
Stuff like that is incredibly common on these boards... gay, as well as all variations of trans porn, escalating into escorts and other things.  While genuinely gay people exist, of those who are questioning it because of porn, it seems none of them turn out to actually be gay. 

It is kinda incredible how common it is.  I'm not sure if it is a chicken/egg thing... maybe we have so much gay/trans porn because the demand is high, or guys are getting hook on it because there is so much of it.  Or, maybe the saturation of gay/trans stuff in the non-porn media creates curiosity/insecurity that works its way into porn.  Who knows.

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« Reply #7 on: December 24, 2018, 03:38:48 PM »
That makes sense! I know what you mean, it's interesting how it all comes about because you're right, we're both two of many that have questioned it - thanks for the message man, it's given more motivation to stick at this reboot!

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Re: Thoughts on this?
« Reply #8 on: December 26, 2018, 03:16:38 PM »
As someone who has had legitimate mental breakdowns over porn-induced sexual confusion, I can say this is likely just your brain playing tricks on you. In time, you will recover.

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« Reply #9 on: December 26, 2018, 03:35:09 PM »
Never had homosexual thoughts nor did my porn taste escalate into those realms but since falling off the wagon i have had fantasies of visiting massage parlours and prostitutes something which before ruining 7 months clean didn't cross my mind

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Re: Thoughts on this?
« Reply #10 on: January 01, 2019, 01:47:46 PM »
Hey guys,

I was wondering the following - iv noticed that I'm always aroused at the idea of giving a blowjob but im not attracted to guys at all - iv thought about that extensively and not at all - but I'm currently rebooting after years of porn addiction, and my main (very predominantly) type of porn was women giving blowjobs

Iv read that as a result of porn addiction, you can develop fetishes or things that arouse you due to your porn addiction, which go away gradually as you successfully reboot

Is it possible that this is a result of my porn addiction?


I had/have the exact same thoughts. Your predominant type of porn was also my preferred type. Those thoughts mixed with experimentation with cocaine, and I crossed that line a handful of times. One thing I can say from experience is that reality did not come close to comparing with the fantasy that I built and nurtured in my thoughts.