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Yo kiddos! Read this!!! It'll help
« on: October 27, 2018, 09:42:24 AM »
OK, so I'm starting to realize that this website is like the WebMD of "I was losing my virginity and I couldn't get it up", looking over some other people's journals. WebMD meaning you have a little cold so you google it and then think you have some serious illness. A lot of guys don't get it up on their first times, it's natural. Nerves are so high, and if you watch any porn it can look like a super easy and effortless thing to get hard in a second and pound away for like 15 minutes. It's kind of similar to if you've never played basketball and you only watch NBA games and then are told to play with them. I can tell you that you would be nervous as shit and probably wouldn't be able to play well. Except with sex it's different because if you are nervous it has a direct relation to your dick and if your dick isn't up you're not even playing.

So I personally believe the solution to that problem is to just not be so god damn nervous. Easier said than done though lol. Find a girl that you can be with for awhile and try to avoid sex for a bit. Feel her, embrace her, just be with her. I don't believe this current hookup culture we are in is a good thing, especially for guys with nervousness problems. Don't identify with PIED. Admitting you have a problem should not be the first step, at least for younger guys. Saying you have a problem will only make you more nervous for next time you attempt to have sex. Avoid porn, as it promotes unrealistic standards for both men and women which will only further your issues.

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« Reply #1 on: October 28, 2018, 08:42:51 AM »
find a girlfriend, avoid sex for a bit, feel her embrace her (rewire) + dont watch porn (reboot) because it will only further your issue...

basically what you are saying is: dont identify with PIED but do everything exactly the same as if you are having PIED.

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« Reply #2 on: October 28, 2018, 12:50:10 PM »
What I'm saying is the whole idea of going for a long streak of avoiding masturbation is pointless. On all of these journals I'm reading people are going for long streaks and get upset when they break them. Having a long streak will not fix your problems.

And you seriously don't see a problem with identifying with PIED? Not being able to get it up is mostly your nervousness level for most people and thinking you have a disease definitely will not help with that

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« Reply #3 on: October 28, 2018, 04:16:15 PM »
me as a porn addict got so used to naked bodies that im much more nervous being with girls that are fully clothed. when we are naked im the most comfortable so i dont like downplaying PIED symptoms of porn addiction.

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« Reply #4 on: October 28, 2018, 04:37:14 PM »
i watched people have sex for hours every day. when i had chance i couldnt get it up, it was mind boggling for me but PIED for sure. nobody can downplay PIED for me.

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« Reply #5 on: October 28, 2018, 10:45:26 PM »
My message wasn't just directed at you, this is a forum. I do believe other people can get value out of my message though.

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« Reply #6 on: October 29, 2018, 01:12:32 PM »
your message of "its not PIED but reboot and rewire and you will start to get your erections back".

whoever responds to you, is not the only one who you directed this message at. why even say that.

"Admitting you have a problem should not be the first step, at least for younger guys." guys, especially young ones, if you cant get it up, its normal. increase of over 1000% in ED among young men since the introduction of high speed internet is just a big joke. use affirmations and positive thinking. there is no problem here... reboot and rewire though...

oh yeah this was not directed only at me, so why i even talk right?

 


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« Reply #7 on: October 29, 2018, 03:46:41 PM »
Sorry guy but you have no idea what you're talking about. The rebooters can't even get it up to masturbate. It's not 'nervousness.' Besides, there's other problems - low sex drive (which should be unheard of in young males), hypofrontality, desensitization, etc.

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What I'm saying is the whole idea of going for a long streak of avoiding masturbation is pointless.
Nonsense. Virtually every study on masturbation has found a causal association with lower relationship satisfaction, lower sexual satisfaction, and lower mood. Additionally, it decreases androgen receptors and increases estrogen receptors in the brain. Real men don't waste their time wanking.

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« Reply #8 on: October 29, 2018, 05:19:45 PM »
talking on forum full of porn addicts like PIED is issue for minority here?? really? if you was anywhere else but here on this forum.

and yeah this hook up culture is bad for nervousness too... really bad, it makes people more anxious about sex. when you add the pornification of music, videos, pictures and also when you add high speed internet access to porn, sex becomes taboo and people get panic attacks when they find themselves go so tabooish. you are blaming present culture for making people more nervous about sex when its actually totally opposite.

also if you are hardcore addict (which you are if you developed PIED) masturbation FUCKS YOU UP. i dont know after reboot and recovery but during reboot, i had discussions countless times here because brain always wants SOMETHING to hold on to in order to get its fix, but MO FUCKS UP THE REBOOT and in more ways than just directly.

reboot and rewire, we agree on that though.

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« Reply #9 on: October 29, 2018, 07:55:20 PM »
yeah, sorry guys. I guess I was in way over my head in offering up my advice to a porn addict forum. It worked for me though, so I thought I'd offer it up.

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« Reply #10 on: October 29, 2018, 09:33:20 PM »
yeah, sorry guys. I guess I was in way over my head in offering up my advice to a porn addict forum. It worked for me though, so I thought I'd offer it up.

Hey, dont get smart boy!
But yeah, everyone reboots differently and reacts differently. Some things that have worked for others may not work for you and vice versa. If it were a simple matter of nervousness then thered be no need for this whole reboot thing. And if you dont admit to the problem youre basicially fucked. More or less.
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