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j7ll7

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Did I relapse or fuck up my reboot?
« on: October 16, 2018, 12:32:57 AM »
Hi guys,

I'm on day 50 of my reboot and last night I had a wet porn dream. I climaxed in about 3 seconds before I realized what was going on. Did I fuck up my recovery or is it not a big deal?

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Re: Did I relapse or fuck up my reboot?
« Reply #1 on: October 16, 2018, 12:58:35 AM »
Not a big deal. Its actually quite normal and wont affect your reboot.
You didnt intentionally dream about porn so theres no harm done
Un-fuck your life, quit porn now! Today!

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Re: Did I relapse or fuck up my reboot?
« Reply #2 on: October 16, 2018, 05:58:30 AM »
Hi guys,

I'm on day 50 of my reboot and last night I had a wet porn dream. I climaxed in about 3 seconds before I realized what was going on. Did I fuck up my recovery or is it not a big deal?

Yeah, if it was a dream and you didn't specifically PMO I wouldn't say it messed up your reboot. Personal action is the key here. You have to personally seek out porn then MO to it for it to constitute as a reset imo. Unless you lucid dream, you can't really control that sort of thing. I heard it's a normal part of this process for some.

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Re: Did I relapse or fuck up my reboot?
« Reply #3 on: October 16, 2018, 10:12:24 AM »
Agreed.  If you didn't make the decision to fantasize or ejaculate, then it isn't a relapse. 

Your brain and body will do a lot of readjusting because it is so used to getting porn/masturbation on a hyper regular basis (I say hyper regular because we never evolved to be so stimulated), so expect weird things.  This is basically a flashback.  They're involuntary, though a person can let the thoughts stay once they barge in uninvited and that can lead to a legitimate relapse.  That isn't what happened to you.

Day 50 is pretty darn good.  Good luck!

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Re: Did I relapse or fuck up my reboot?
« Reply #4 on: October 16, 2018, 12:00:47 PM »
It happened to me as i had a dream about sex and M in the dream, it felt so real that i relized its a dream mins after waking up. U didnt fuck up ur reboot as its out of ur control so u r okay