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odin321

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FINALLY POPPED THE CHAMPAGNE OF VICTORY (age 22)
« on: January 06, 2018, 02:24:47 PM »
Hello readers, I am pleased to announce that after years of porn-related problems, I have recovered and 2 days ago i finally had sex- and it was amazing. Here's my brief story line:

- I experienced pretty bad PIED ever since I started seeing girls, around age 17. I could not feel any sexual arousal with them and never knew why.

- At age 19 I got into a relationship with a gorgeous girl with whom I couldn't even get hard at all at first, but after 5-6 times of her coming over to my house I managed to do partial rewiring (hj and bj), but never fully healed to where we could have sex. I was usually 100% hard during foreplay but always went limp when we attempted intercourse. it was horrible. She dumped me because of our sex problems 6 months later and I was devastated.

- I felt depressed, suicidal and lost a whole year of university because of my mental state after the breakup

- When I'd get with girls, I'd always avoid sexual intercourse in fear of similar failure and embarrassment. Of course, none of these girls stuck around for long.

- I learned about PIED by doing internet research at age 21 and felt very releaved to find the answers (and solutions) to my problems. By this stage I was starting to improve my unversity carreer and get back on track.

- It took me a good half year of informing myself and convincing myself to start my journey to recovery

- As soon as i turned 22 (last may) I completely quit porn and cut back masturbation to once every 2 weeks. Meanwhile I'd still avoid sexual intercourse during hookups due to negative reinforcement from the past.

- On New Year's Eve party 2018 I met a wonderful girl from Norway, started seeing each other and a couple of days later I went home with her. I was being avoidant about sex, as always (making excuses that I felt tired, sick etc..) but she insisted enough and I actually went for it. My dick was 100% hard during foreplay and semi-hard when initiating intercourse, but once it was inside her, it became 100% hard again and it felt so unbelievably good that I came after 2 minutes, EVEN during the second round.

Now, in retrospect I can say that PIED was a serious problem for me when I was younger, and it created side effects such as performance anxiety that contunued to persist even though my PIED was being healed. I can't put into words how glad I am to have finally overcome this and I thought the best I could do is share my story with you guys and be 100% honest. Guys, I did it and you can do it too. Quit porn, try to rewire with a real partner, and just go for it. It will happen eventually.

'Some people need to hit rock bottom before they turn their life around'

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Re: FINALLY POPPED THE CHAMPAGNE OF VICTORY (age 22)
« Reply #1 on: January 06, 2018, 03:30:07 PM »
hello there bro. Im in my 1 st semester of first year of medical college. I glad to hear your story and since i was hoping to have a period of years for recovery your experience sure gives me confidence.
PIED since 6 years :(
Reboot Starting Date: 5th January 2018
Goal: March 18th 2018 :)

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Re: FINALLY POPPED THE CHAMPAGNE OF VICTORY (age 22)
« Reply #2 on: January 09, 2018, 04:54:35 PM »
Hello readers, I am pleased to announce that after years of porn-related problems, I have recovered and 2 days ago i finally had sex- and it was amazing. Here's my brief story line:

- I experienced pretty bad PIED ever since I started seeing girls, around age 17. I could not feel any sexual arousal with them and never knew why.

- At age 19 I got into a relationship with a gorgeous girl with whom I couldn't even get hard at all at first, but after 5-6 times of her coming over to my house I managed to do partial rewiring (hj and bj), but never fully healed to where we could have sex. I was usually 100% hard during foreplay but always went limp when we attempted intercourse. it was horrible. She dumped me because of our sex problems 6 months later and I was devastated.

- I felt depressed, suicidal and lost a whole year of university because of my mental state after the breakup

- When I'd get with girls, I'd always avoid sexual intercourse in fear of similar failure and embarrassment. Of course, none of these girls stuck around for long.

- I learned about PIED by doing internet research at age 21 and felt very releaved to find the answers (and solutions) to my problems. By this stage I was starting to improve my unversity carreer and get back on track.

- It took me a good half year of informing myself and convincing myself to start my journey to recovery

- As soon as i turned 22 (last may) I completely quit porn and cut back masturbation to once every 2 weeks. Meanwhile I'd still avoid sexual intercourse during hookups due to negative reinforcement from the past.

- On New Year's Eve party 2018 I met a wonderful girl from Norway, started seeing each other and a couple of days later I went home with her. I was being avoidant about sex, as always (making excuses that I felt tired, sick etc..) but she insisted enough and I actually went for it. My dick was 100% hard during foreplay and semi-hard when initiating intercourse, but once it was inside her, it became 100% hard again and it felt so unbelievably good that I came after 2 minutes, EVEN during the second round.

Now, in retrospect I can say that PIED was a serious problem for me when I was younger, and it created side effects such as performance anxiety that contunued to persist even though my PIED was being healed. I can't put into words how glad I am to have finally overcome this and I thought the best I could do is share my story with you guys and be 100% honest. Guys, I did it and you can do it too. Quit porn, try to rewire with a real partner, and just go for it. It will happen eventually.

'Some people need to hit rock bottom before they turn their life around'

Good story. What was your longest streak on hard mode?

Are you Taurus or Gemini?


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Re: FINALLY POPPED THE CHAMPAGNE OF VICTORY (age 22)
« Reply #3 on: January 10, 2018, 09:30:25 AM »
I never really went on hard mode, i just removed porn completely and MO'd once every 2 weeks at most, fantasizing about real live girls and past hookups. I found that my libido increased a lot as well as my lust for real girls. I'm Taurus)

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Re: FINALLY POPPED THE CHAMPAGNE OF VICTORY (age 22)
« Reply #4 on: January 22, 2018, 11:53:29 AM »
respect bro, very motivating

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Re: FINALLY POPPED THE CHAMPAGNE OF VICTORY (age 22)
« Reply #5 on: January 25, 2018, 07:31:37 AM »
So about 6/7 months you’d say it took? Anything else you do that helped with recovery?

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« Reply #6 on: January 25, 2018, 07:12:01 PM »
So about 6/7 months you’d say it took? Anything else you do that helped with recovery?

Yeah around 7 months, the first 4 were crucial and made a big difference. Helpful tips that worked for me are: I kept track of my progress (for example occurance of MW, MO frequency) on a calendar to reduce the temptation of relapse, i exercised 2-3 times a week (bit of cardio, bit of weights), went out (alone or with friends) socializing especially talking to girls, invested more time in hobbies/interests that i really like, and i talked about my problem to a trusted friend who understood my situation and supported me. Ultimately though what made the difference for me was adopting a new mindset. I didn't consider myself a real man unless i gave up on porn and started having a normal sex life. Sounds harsh, but drastic times called for drastic discipline. I thank myself now for it

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Re: FINALLY POPPED THE CHAMPAGNE OF VICTORY (age 22)
« Reply #7 on: January 25, 2018, 09:04:30 PM »
I’m praying 6 months will be long enough for me. I’m almost at 90 now

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Re: FINALLY POPPED THE CHAMPAGNE OF VICTORY (age 22)
« Reply #8 on: January 26, 2018, 09:23:35 AM »
Congrats ODIN! Happy for you! I must ask....well....what was the key to your success?

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Re: FINALLY POPPED THE CHAMPAGNE OF VICTORY (age 22)
« Reply #9 on: February 22, 2018, 11:37:26 PM »
Awesome read, gives me motivation to keep pushing foward