Staying kinky while rebooting

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KinkySpider

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So i just realized last night that PIED is likely a problem for me and that I should take steps to fix it.  I think that a big part of the problem for me is that I wouldn't use porn to masturbate, I just watch it whenever I am bored.  I'm not sure if that means rebooting will be faster or slower for me.  So I deleted Tumblr and removed myself from some chat rooms that shared a lot of images and things.

Here's my problem though.  I'm active in my local BDSM community.  2 to 4 times a month I go to parties that have naked people (of various genders and levels of attractiveness) doing some pretty crazy shit.  I participate in it too, just not the stuff that requires an erection, which honestly is most of it. You'd be surprised how little actual sex there is.  So my question is, is that going to make it more difficult to reboot?  Should I abstain from the parties until I've got my brain back to normal?  I REALLY don't want to.  It's an important part of my life and almost all of my social circle.  But if it's going to stop me from being able to fuck then I think I'd do it.  The hard part will be going to the website the parties are organized through without being distracted by the images people share on it. 

I haven't seen this mentioned in any of the stuff I've come across so far and would like to hear some thoughts on it.
 
tommy_0113

tommy_0113

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KinkySpider said:
So i just realized last night that PIED is likely a problem for me and that I should take steps to fix it.  I think that a big part of the problem for me is that I wouldn't use porn to masturbate, I just watch it whenever I am bored.  I'm not sure if that means rebooting will be faster or slower for me.  So I deleted Tumblr and removed myself from some chat rooms that shared a lot of images and things.

Here's my problem though.  I'm active in my local BDSM community.  2 to 4 times a month I go to parties that have naked people (of various genders and levels of attractiveness) doing some pretty crazy shit.  I participate in it too, just not the stuff that requires an erection, which honestly is most of it. You'd be surprised how little actual sex there is.  So my question is, is that going to make it more difficult to reboot?  Should I abstain from the parties until I've got my brain back to normal?  I REALLY don't want to.  It's an important part of my life and almost all of my social circle.  But if it's going to stop me from being able to fuck then I think I'd do it.  The hard part will be going to the website the parties are organized through without being distracted by the images people share on it. 

I haven't seen this mentioned in any of the stuff I've come across so far and would like to hear some thoughts on it.
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I've been to BDSM event nights at clubs and never found that a hindrance to my reboot. After all, it's real people doing real things. The problem arises from sitting alone in bed on the internet masturbating whilst browsing through FL and porn images.
 
tommy_0113

tommy_0113

Active Member
KinkySpider said:
Alright, i don't think I'll have much trouble with the images on FL.
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Just use it for socialising, not looking at full images.

It might do you good to take a 90 day break from the kink scene in tandem with your reboot. Two birds, one stone etc. It could really help in unknown ways.
 
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