34 days and seeing results.

Moony

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Hei. My story: Divorced with my wife. Had stress like....a lot. Met new GF was nervous, and noticed some problems.
My story is as long as I can remember myself I had problems keeping my erection, without stimulation. I can get Hard very fast, but if stimulation is not ther, then my erections went away. Also standing up erections goes away fast.
Never was sure, if it`s PIED, and it messed my mind, some friends told me it`s OK, not to be hard whole time in foreplay, or when giving girl oral. I know you should not stay hard all the time, but still i thought that I can improve my erection lenght, so I decided to quit P and masturbation. I have succesfull sex durning my reboot, but still I dont M. Biggest isue, is my mind sometimes I wonder do I have PIED?!
But today, I woke up with morning wood and it stayed arund 30min. First weeks without P, my MW came back then it diapeared and now it seems to come back again.
My gf, touched my balls and masturbated me for a breef moment and after that I STAYED HARD without stimulation, without it.... like 10min. I was so happy, I gained confidence that I was suffering from PIED( watching and death grip M for 10years).Altrough I haven`t had O for 2 weeks, but still it`s evedance that I was desintazed
My PIED is not as other, I get hard very fast, but problem was that I needed constant stimulation to stay hard, and I did not think about sex like wow and stuff. I thing P robbed my true libido.

My problem was also that I kept looking for answers is it PIED, or is it normal? Answer, for some people it`s normal that they need more stimulation to stay hard, but I also think maybe they suffer from PIED, for me I think keep going in my reebot will benefit me, and maybe someday I can stay hard even when standing up.

Your thoughts?
 

Moony

New Member
Just had sex on morning (happens very rare) on coach on not so comfortable position, durning foreplay i was hard 80% and when I went inside was 10o% and switched positions. Ejeculated very fast but my girl likes it!
I am blessed that my erection is very fast but I also need to be relaxed and in mood. And on morning i was sleepy but still managed to have sucesfull sex.
I have come to mindset to don^t worry as much about erection hardness durning foreplay, the main thing is if you can have sex then you are sucessfull. Cheers!
 

Androg

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Congratulations on your improvements.

FYI, urologists who measure erectile dysfunction don't just ask if you can get an erection. Inability to sustain an erection  during sex is also evidence of "erectile dysfunction." Typically it gets worse if you keep using porn, so it's great you stopped when you did. This is a really common problem today: http://www.sash.net/unprecedented-rates-of-sexual-dysfunctions-in-young-men-may-be-related-to-internet-porn-use/

Just know that when you recover, it's not "safe" to use porn again. If it caused sexual dysfunctions once, they will develop again if you go back to internet porn.
 
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