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duke.togo13

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online dating?
« on: February 02, 2017, 02:48:52 PM »
So how is online dating for you?

Tried it? tell me about it.


BailHopper

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Re: online dating?
« Reply #1 on: February 02, 2017, 03:24:17 PM »
I tried it. Got one good relationship out of my time on Tinder and a lot of dates that didn't go anywhere. It's okay and it's a good place to meet new people but don't expect any miracles. It's a good thing to practice dating and talking to women with though! :-)
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Re: online dating?
« Reply #2 on: February 02, 2017, 03:24:28 PM »
I think some people have relapsed using it. Personally I just felt creepy and desperate when I used an online dating site.

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Re: online dating?
« Reply #3 on: February 02, 2017, 04:06:49 PM »
I think some people have relapsed using it. Personally I just felt creepy and desperate when I used an online dating site.
I understand where that's coming from. To be honest, when I started using online dating, I felt like a creep myself. But it all depends on how you act on the dating site itself. Something I did every time I had a conversation with a female, is ask if they have had any bad experiences on that particular dating site. They ALWAYS had at least one. Ask her to tell you about it and then be honest to yourself how many of those behaviors you are displaying yourself. That gives you a great idea on what to work on.
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Re: online dating?
« Reply #4 on: February 03, 2017, 05:51:45 PM »
http://www.rebootnation.org/forum/index.php?topic=12325.0

Just found another person that relapsed using an online dating site. Must be something about it. I've seen quite a few posters say the same thing

duke.togo13

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Re: online dating?
« Reply #5 on: February 03, 2017, 09:00:50 PM »
Online dating is dangerous.

Especially those unexpected messages you get from Webcam-girls
Their either like click my link and see sum of my pics and
BANG
It can be tempting and lead to PMO

I remember a while back I had an okcupid page and I put so much effort in the Profile,
I would be able to converse well with chubby girls
but I never got passed a phone call, or a single date I always thought they were too desperate
so I gave up.

Trying to talk to hot/moderate girls just never happened unless you offended them or called them fake profiles.
Altogether
It is weird system compared to the real world.




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Re: online dating?
« Reply #6 on: February 05, 2017, 03:45:32 PM »
If you have pied then using an app like tinder to hook up with a girl can be a much less embarrassing way to rewire than say dating a coworker or someone who you have mutual friends with that could possibly talk if you cant get it up. Thats the main benefit that I see. If you dont have pied then its just an easier way to meet people. Just try not to get stuck in the messaging and fantasy stage. The point of rewiring it to actually rewire to a girl. Not just pictures and messages.