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Iloveicecream

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Re: New here
« Reply #25 on: September 04, 2019, 04:39:28 AM »
Day 3:

Yesterday evening I watched my favourite tv Show....I think this helps as well....so I did not have triggers at all.....I had one beer and then I fell asleep deeply. no thoughts About pmo......I want to get out more in the real world and interact more.....the whole Problem is pmo is Isolation......but we humans Need to interact with other People......so I want to spend more time with Friends, Family and new Friends..... anyways I woke up and felt happy....hope all of you will be very super strong!!!!!

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Re: New here
« Reply #26 on: September 04, 2019, 04:58:55 AM »
Too true.... isolation makes things worse, but addiction and the sensitisation / de-sensitisation process erodes those neural pathways that motivate us to connect.... so we've got to push ourselves to say "yes" to as many opportunities to interact with others as possible.... Live in the open, not is the shadows  :D. Best wishes to you for today.

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Re: New here
« Reply #27 on: September 04, 2019, 06:23:03 AM »
Thank you very much for your nice words!!!

Iloveicecream

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Re: New here
« Reply #28 on: September 05, 2019, 02:00:25 AM »
day 4:

porn never crosses my minds, only Subs sometimes. yesterday I exercised twice so I was too tired. I do one hour of Meditation and one hour of Sports....after that there is tranquility in our Brains....

I love my life and so I have some good reasons to stay strong. Love is stronger than addiction.

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Re: New here
« Reply #29 on: September 05, 2019, 02:14:36 AM »
Sounds good!

Iloveicecream

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Re: New here
« Reply #30 on: September 05, 2019, 03:30:27 AM »
actually, there is another Benefit to not pmoing. PMO is one dimensional. We only use our eyes. In real life we use all of our senses. So this real life is a lot richer than staring at a screen where People Exchange stds for free...

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Re: New here
« Reply #31 on: September 05, 2019, 09:40:08 AM »
Good point!

Iloveicecream

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Re: New here
« Reply #32 on: September 06, 2019, 02:14:21 AM »
actually touching myself can be fun too....no Need for extra Stimulation......It takes more Energy but it is more rewarding and in the end I gain more....I think I am finally leaving the vicious circle.....It is better to think About our dreams...our time is limited on the earth so why not discover the world.....hope all of you will be strong today.....I will clean up the house.....that will clean up my brain too.....take care everyone....

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Re: New here
« Reply #33 on: September 06, 2019, 03:24:20 AM »
Yeah, you're right…There's a complete new world out there behind the wall. I hope discover it someday soon.
I liked that thing about clean your house clean your mind!
Take care too!

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Re: New here
« Reply #34 on: September 06, 2019, 03:50:56 AM »
Thank you free-man.

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Re: New here
« Reply #35 on: September 30, 2019, 12:36:39 PM »
I read your post about loneliness. I totally agree with that being one of many culprits. Hang in there. As I've said to my grandson, men are from Mars and women are from Venus. We are wired so differently that it's mindboggling! How awesome that because of our wiring, we guys can opening express our strengths and our weaknesses. Make today a day of victory not defeat.