Excuse the late reply! I just wanted to say thank you. We both read the book love you hate the porn recommended my @cuppatea. My fiance declined to join the forum, but fortunately, we did begin getting counseling through a recovery coach jk emezi at elevated recovery. He's been off porn 5 months already (with one minor slip) and I've learned to cope with the trauma better.
Trust is still taking a while to rebuild, but I have faith that we can fix this. Thank you for the kind words @aquarius25
I'll see if I can coax him into joining the forum