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Pergamos

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Hi I am a 24 years old male with a good physical condition and 178 cm height/73kg weight. Regularly exercising and trying to eat healthy, no smoking and taking alcohol thiree times in a year.
I was using porn since I am 14 years old but not always just 3 times in a week...
I was having a rager libido and morning woods till 2014 August...
It was 2 years ago... first days of 2015... I was very stressed because of my work and anxious because of not having sex for 2years because of my conservative girlfriend...
I broke up with her and find a girl but I started to feel low libido after stressful work time and anxious on having sex with a girl...

I want to note that I was not a porn addicted I was just a masturbation addicted person who does it at least 2 times in a day because of sexual urge... I was a walking boner and was able to cum3 times in 1 hour without any force in 1 hour when I sex with my ex girlfriend...

But in the 2015 I started to feel less and less sexual urge and I want to test myself with a girl...
It was an half erection and couldn't get the second erection up and it shocked me!!!

I started to search and decide to check whether I am getting morning woods or not and I shocked again!!! I was not getting it but I was able to get erections with porn ...

I went to doctor and my testosterone result came back with a reference range (250-800) 633...

It was a good result but I was not getting woods and I was having lagging libido..

At that time I was not getting hard with my own and it was hard to get it with porn too...

Now I have a partner and my problems are:

1-no morning wood or a soft one
2-lagging libido
3-late ejaculation
4-I have a pulsing penis when it is erect
5-no random daily erections
6-hard to get erect in stand up position
7-less pleasure of sex

I had strong erections by watching porn after leaving porn for 3 months ... (no porn but daily M and O with no libido/urge, just for checking myself)
I check my dick obsessively by masturbating to learn whether it is still working or not because it is limp if I don't stimulate it...
But I can have erections and sex despite all my problems and libido...

I want to note that I have/had no urge for porn... also I had/have no urge for real sex...

Doctors say it is psychological...

What do you say?

Is it possible to say that not having urge for porn or sex might be PIED related?
« Last Edit: January 03, 2017, 10:37:29 AM by Pergamos »

anon89

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Sounds plausible to me. When watching porn, your caveman brain basically tells you to impregnate every single one of these naked horny willing women that surround you. The brain adjusts to this new norm, and when you're with one partner, it's not quite as exciting.

Watching porn regularly makes your brain set up a sort of "hearing protection" from the crazy amount of dopamine signals. This works for porn, since you're basically standing next to the sex equivalent of stadium concert speakers, but this "hearing protection" can take a long time to remove. Regular sex then becomes like trying to have a whispering conversation while wearing hearing protection with built-in radio. At least that's how I view it.

1. Check out Noah Church's and Gabe Deem's videos.
- https://www.youtube.com/user/bvrningqvestions/videos
- https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCaEqbNJURD6ChROqueUdNuA/videos

2. Read this: https://www.amazon.com/Your-Brain-Porn-Pornography-Addiction/dp/099316160X/

3. Try to go a couple of weeks without masturbating. I've gone 18 days now, with a previous record of one month. I feel so energized and horny, like I'm 14 again.

My case is similar to yours - I also didn't watch porn much, but I masturbated a lot. I never had erection problems by myself - only with others. I'm single, so I don't know the results yet, but I'm optimistic about regaining my erections in 2017.

Pergamos

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Thanks for your reply...

I have no erection issue by myself but things changed so much that I am confused.

I have a low libido and masturbating not because I crave for it just because to see whether it is still living or not and it says that I am working but not it was like 2 years ago...
I have no urge to masturbate like I had two years ago... not for porn or solo...

Not having a taste in the penis, it is just a solid, pulsing penis, without any feelings...
I am also able to have sex but just one cum makes me feel satisfied which was just a starter two years ago...

But I watched porn many years while I had partners too but I do not know if it is the source of my problem...

Is it PIED? I hope it is...