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Porn Induced E.D Explained [Video]
« on: March 13, 2014, 10:05:36 PM »
Hey guys,

Just uploaded my new video to The Reboot Nation YouTube channel. This vid is just a brief history of my porn use leading up to when I had ED, and I also covered what appears to be happening in our brains with porn use. Namely sensitization and desensitization. 

Hope it helps give you guys a new perspective or refreshes some key concepts, and encourages you guys to beat this addiction. Feel free to share it all over the webs, guys are out there with PIED and have no idea porn can be the cause. Join me in the fight for awareness, save a boner and you just might save a life.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kGGxXHBVDYU
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« Reply #1 on: March 21, 2014, 03:18:29 AM »
Gabe, I love your work. And I congratulate your courage to have shared that and have publicly spoken about your own story without shame. Now, I have a question: Is spending time making out with a real woman or being in proximity to a woman that turns me on, and cuddling with her or just getting physical, going to help me see faster improvement? Thank you!

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« Reply #2 on: March 21, 2014, 06:46:43 AM »
@Sailor

Thanks for the kind words man.

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spending time making out with a real woman or being in proximity to a woman that turns me on, and cuddling with her or just getting physical, going to help me see faster improvement?

From what have have seen from successful rebooters, yes. Absolutely. I know those same things helped me tremendously during my reboot.
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« Reply #3 on: April 15, 2014, 11:26:45 PM »
Yea, tons of respect to you Gabe. I've been on the fence about your advice to tell friends and family about my issues. I just think it would make things worse having everybody put weird pressure on me to "seal the deal" with a girl. I promise when I work my issues out, I'm going to spread awareness about all this stuff. Keep up the good work brother

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« Reply #4 on: May 24, 2014, 07:36:17 PM »
gabe my back ground with porn is just like yours when you flatlined did you have no sexual interest with women and how long did last for ???

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« Reply #5 on: May 24, 2014, 09:02:30 PM »
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hen you flatlined did you have no sexual interest with women and how long did last for

I was mentally interested but had absolutely no physical arousal at all when thinking about it, looking at girls, or being with my girl. Just felt like I had a deflated balloon attached to my body for no reason. My flatline was about 6 months, followed by a few months of going in and out of mini flatlines. By 9 months I felt normal enough not to notice anything. and 15 months to consider myself fully recovered as I was able to get an erection to just touch alone. Do not make the mistake of expecting exactly what I went through, EVERYONE has many different variables that can make small or big differences in recovery.

So just commit to it and keep trucking. I hope the best for you. Welcome to the Nation! Much love
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« Reply #6 on: May 25, 2014, 06:39:57 AM »
Cheers gabe I have interest its not heightened but hocd suffer for few years but im here to succeed so cheer man it cause of you I started this I was sick of living this life. Thank you

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« Reply #7 on: May 25, 2014, 07:31:49 PM »
Hey guys i just looked into your site cause i was worries i had prostate cancer or something of that nature was causing my e.d , but im only 19 bro and i've been dating this amazing girl for a few weeks and  i just keep going limp on her when we try to be intimate and it absolutely destroys me inside because i really am just in love with this girl and i dont wana ruin things, how long do you suppose this reebot could take? cause i noticed my in ability to get hard earlier a yearnd a half ago, How can i speed it up? i really dont wana loose this girl she means the world to me.

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« Reply #8 on: May 25, 2014, 07:37:03 PM »
Should i quit Smoking Pot? Drinking?  any feed back would be a great help.

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« Reply #9 on: May 25, 2014, 07:49:09 PM »
I can also relate to the use of porn at a young age , i remember seeing an add for girls gone wild lol, at age 10 or something like that, i was captivated, i was bad for it for a long time, but i need some help bro

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« Reply #10 on: June 07, 2014, 12:03:00 AM »
Hii Gabe, I have to say that I am very grateful that I came across your youtube video because I can honestly relate to a lot of things that you went through.I am currently 21 years old and A lot of the things that you went through I am going through right now. I struggle with getting aroused around women and my sex life is at an all time low. I am going to take your advice that you have shown in your videos and see how that works out for me and Im going to need all the help and support from everyone on this website.

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« Reply #11 on: July 27, 2014, 09:02:56 AM »
Thanks Gabe God Bless You....  ;)

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« Reply #12 on: August 16, 2014, 10:26:08 AM »
I've never had issues with ED. Probably because dial-up internet was just starting to catch on when I was 17/18 and I've only had my own internet connection for less than five years.

I enjoyed your video, though. Thank you for explaining the basic science behind internet porn issues so well.

Your dog is so cute!

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« Reply #13 on: November 15, 2014, 03:29:15 PM »
Hey guys i just looked into your site cause i was worries i had prostate cancer or something of that nature was causing my e.d , but im only 19 bro and i've been dating this amazing girl for a few weeks and  i just keep going limp on her when we try to be intimate and it absolutely destroys me inside because i really am just in love with this girl and i dont wana ruin things, how long do you suppose this reebot could take? cause i noticed my in ability to get hard earlier a yearnd a half ago, How can i speed it up? i really dont wana loose this girl she means the world to me.

I think most experienced guys would suggest being up front with her about what's going on, because if she thinks you can't get it up because you're not attracted to her, she will leave. If she's really cool, she will stick around when you explain what's up.

In the meantime might as well try some cialis or just get good at going down on your girl.

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« Reply #14 on: August 03, 2015, 10:21:08 PM »
Nice vids. Thanks, pal :)
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« Reply #15 on: March 01, 2016, 10:36:40 AM »
Unfortunately I relapsed and masturbated on Saturday night.  This was after cumming two nights in a row.  I have not cum two nights in a row since my divorce 4 years ago.

I am ashamed and don’t feel really great about myself, had to reset my counter.  What happened was we were making love many times during the day.  I had no issue getting or staying hard.  She had multiple orgasms. I kept getting so close, literally right on the edge.  I kept telling myself I was ok, that it would happen or pass.  Neither happened.  I had that feeling where I literally could not stand it.  I had to have a release.  She was more than willing to give me a super amazing and very long HJ AND BJ.  But nothing happened, I could not release.  So I masturbated with her there.  I was using my hand and motion and finally I came but I broke the rules.  Now she is back staying at her place and my unit is very sore from overuse but I am so happy about ejaculating twice and also sad that I relapsed.

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« Reply #16 on: August 22, 2016, 05:51:57 AM »
Thats a really good video. People should get rid of porn addiction. Erectile Dysfunction is a severe health condition.

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« Reply #17 on: September 25, 2016, 02:41:54 PM »
Unfortunately I relapsed and masturbated on Saturday night.  This was after cumming two nights in a row.  I have not cum two nights in a row since my divorce 4 years ago.

I am ashamed and don’t feel really great about myself, had to reset my counter.  What happened was we were making love many times during the day.  I had no issue getting or staying hard.  She had multiple orgasms. I kept getting so close, literally right on the edge.  I kept telling myself I was ok, that it would happen or pass.  Neither happened.  I had that feeling where I literally could not stand it.  I had to have a release.  She was more than willing to give me a super amazing and very long HJ AND BJ.  But nothing happened, I could not release.  So I masturbated with her there.  I was using my hand and motion and finally I came but I broke the rules.  Now she is back staying at her place and my unit is very sore from overuse but I am so happy about ejaculating twice and also sad that I relapsed.

Did you cum into a flatline?

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« Reply #18 on: December 23, 2017, 05:58:18 PM »
Thanks Gabe, im new on this site, im from africa, i had the most embarrassing moment of my life when i failed to get hard and have sex with my ex, i didnt handle the situation well either made things really awkward, thats how i found out i have PIED, ever since then i watched a lot of porn and masturbated because i was depressed i couldnt function, since i discovered you and Noah B.E. Church on youtube, started watching your videos, ive been one month free, it still isnt easy, there is a lot of temptation, but your videos give hope of recovery and encourage me to push on, i just want to say thank for all the help you go out of your way to give man

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« Reply #19 on: January 02, 2018, 11:26:53 AM »
@ Slavy brazy

So glad you found our videos helpful! And Congrats on one month free my man. Hope the best for you and hope this community and forum can help you along the way to recovery and a better life. Much love
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« Reply #20 on: February 07, 2018, 05:14:07 PM »
I started masterbation and porn at age 13. Now I can not get an erection by touch only by porn am I in the right spot for help. When  looking at porn I can't keep  the boner but for like a minute to 2 minutes. Also I do I eat healthy and in shape for my age now ( 19). I'm trying to stay away from porn. But idk what to do.i have not been getting morning wood or erections like I did before watching porn. Please message me on this site if you can help. Me I want to fix this problem before I get married. I ve been pron free for. A week then I went back.

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« Reply #21 on: June 27, 2018, 12:37:09 AM »
Changes in Lifestyle will do the trick. No smoking, no beer/ale, no booze, no drugs at all. ANY of these can interrupt blood flow to the penis resulting in diminished libido & cause erectile dysfunction or impotence. Stress, anxiety, depression, fatigue, crappy diet or medicines can also cause malfunction at the junction.

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« Reply #22 on: July 26, 2018, 08:33:11 AM »
Hi I'm just starting my cold turkey from images etc online.....is thinking about your partner...masturbating over over/my imagination healthy thing to follow to cure?

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« Reply #23 on: December 29, 2018, 06:06:09 PM »
Hello

How long does it take me to get out of this problem?

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« Reply #24 on: January 15, 2019, 03:09:29 PM »
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How long does it take me to get out of this problem?

There is no set amount of time as everyone is different. Start by watching this video that explains the basics: https://youtu.be/z4yx4ouxGbQ
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