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mpkl

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Cured or not cured?
« on: August 18, 2018, 06:13:44 PM »
So im kinda healed meaning successful sex with a 70-80% erection. Im living with my gf these days AMD we have lots of sex.Problem is that as we go my erections gets softer and hard to achieve so my performance declines.Is this part of healing and rewiring?
Should i slow down to sex? We have like 2 times a Day but we do some breaks for about 2 days every 3-4 days.
Do i need more reboot.?
We usually have sex every 15days so im not that used to that "2times A Day" thing.
Whats your opinion to that?
Any siggestions Will be highly appreciated

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Re: Cured or not cured?
« Reply #1 on: August 20, 2018, 02:04:25 PM »
How long are you rebooting? Do you train your pelvic floor?  Lots of people forget about their pelvic floor , but it has to be retoned after you trained yourself into tension-patterns that work for
masturbation but not for real sex.

Do Kegel exercises , but keep the focus on slow and controlled relaxation of the muscles while inhalation after pushing them togheter while exhalation.
Maybe your are at the start not able to relaxe them controlled , than it's ok to first just contract the muscles.

If you start with that things will get worse for a few days because you make the muscles that keep your dick up tired , but then they will grow stronger real quick.

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Re: Cured or not cured?
« Reply #2 on: August 20, 2018, 09:25:20 PM »
I do train them like every Day my session contains like 3x10 normal kegels 10seconds strict and 5sec relaxed...
Can my ups and downs occur cause i tire them?
I had sex many times in the same Day i trained my pc muscles successful though.
Maybe give myself some rest and try sex?
What do you suggest me

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Re: Cured or not cured?
« Reply #3 on: August 21, 2018, 07:06:46 AM »
Ok , if you train them already i'm wrong and it's propaly not the cause. I would give your pelvic floor a rest , maybe massage it a little bit.

But because a lot of people missunderstood this pelvic floor stuff i will write a bit about it the next days , because i have the theory that it's not purely
about the strength , it is about habitual tension patterns that are trained by masturbation and totaly useless for real sex where you move your pelvis.

You don't answered the question how long your are rebooting , but if you are in need for a little help in those sex-rich days you can try the Aminoacid Arginin ,
it helped me alot.

Maybe there are some psychological issues too , do you want that much sex? is there something in your relationship that has to be spoken about? Do you love that girl?


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Re: Cured or not cured?
« Reply #4 on: August 21, 2018, 07:01:32 PM »
Im into that reboot process for about 2 years of relapses between.
Im having O's with my girlfriend quite frequently and no withdrawls from them.
I really love that girl and i want to improve our life together. Fact is that i dont need that much sex.. My gf want to but see doesnt have A problem if i cant achieve erections.Maybe i Will do A 30day coldturkey and see if things get better.. Thanks for replying






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Re: Cured or not cured?
« Reply #5 on: August 27, 2018, 09:30:37 PM »
Mmmmmm interesting case....
If you successfully slam your girlfriend, multiple times a day even (I bet she bloody loves that!), then on paper Id say you may be more or less cured. But your willy is only 70-80% erect? That could be from overuse, in which case give it (and her!) a rest for a week or so - no jerking off either.
Or it could be suggestive of not having 100% recorvered, or at least some residual effects of the reboot...
Anyway, dont stress about it too much. Youre able to shove it up your girlfriend so thats good!
Also how are your other symptoms?
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Re: Cured or not cured?
« Reply #6 on: September 02, 2018, 08:00:11 AM »
Relapsed 2 days binge after that multiple sex sessions but i stopped before it sparks. Now im on a 8 Day Hard Mode and willing to go 60 days without sex and ofc pmo Just to see if it improve it more. Yeah i think it was a combination of both overuse and not cured completely.Its surely overuse cause as the days go erection quality and performance declines and not recovered cause i see myself slip into it and not turn on completely by my girlfriend. If my libido hits high porn it should hit higher for my gf as cured. I Will update after the 60 days in this post. Thanks for replying!!