Author Topic: 43 and want real sex  (Read 719 times)

cranm329

  • Member

  • Offline
  • ***

  • 134
    • View Profile
Re: 43 and want real sex
« Reply #25 on: April 22, 2019, 05:06:15 AM »
Hi Humpty. A few tips that may help and you might not have tried.
Try increasing nitrite/nitrate containing foods in your diet. It certainly helps me. Beets, arugula (rocket), celery and meat products containing sodium nitrite preservative. The latter is controversial and depends on availability/food standards in your country.
Try slow/still sex. Agree with your wife to enter about half way and then just stay still. Slight movements allowed but do not go for O. Do not worry if your erection reduces for a while. If you both hang in there (!) it will come back. Focus on the sensation rather than going for stimulation. It will help your wife too. All the best and enjoy.

Humpty

  • Member

  • Offline
  • *

  • 18
    • View Profile
Re: 43 and want real sex
« Reply #26 on: April 22, 2019, 02:04:06 PM »
Hi,

I've been taking magnesium and zinc supplements, taking a lot of cialis and viagra etc. Nothing works.
I get hard, sometimes really hard, but as soon as we start intercourse it goes. Occasionally, because of my no PMO I am able to recover it but for the most part it happens. It hurts both of us and effects both of our lives.
At this stage I'm actually regretting giving up porn because at least then we wasn't trying to have sex and therfore I wasn't hurting us both everytime.

If you read my history in my original post you'll see if been to the doctors years ago about it, had brain scans etc etc. Tried everything.

I'm at a loss tbh

cranm329

  • Member

  • Offline
  • ***

  • 134
    • View Profile
Re: 43 and want real sex
« Reply #27 on: April 22, 2019, 03:32:59 PM »
Sounds like stress related problem. Possible performance anxiety. One of the commonest causes of selective or situational ED.