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Ages 30-39 / Re: when should I reset.
« on: July 11, 2016, 12:05:00 AM »
Hi moto...
                   are you there, need help man.


Ages 30-39 / Looking for Acountablility Partner.
« on: July 08, 2016, 09:25:05 PM »
Hello Friends,
                    I have been addicted for almost 10 years now. Because of PMO my life is not as fuller as it may have been.
there fore I want to quit porn. I need help as much as you guys do.
I had began a journey earlier but I couldn't continue for lack motivation. again I wanna start it all over.

I know this forum there will be people of different kind of beliefs and back grounds. But since I am a Christian I was wondering if any one can help me in this manner. I mean through spirituality as well. Not offering more guilt using religion but helping in understanding my-self and god's love.


Ages 30-39 / Re: when should I reset.
« on: April 29, 2016, 04:52:05 AM »
Hey Guys,
                         I did it accurately. Thanks...

Ages 30-39 / Re: when should I reset.
« on: April 29, 2016, 04:48:12 AM »
zdc84 .... This is where you need to be honest with yourself. No one can really answer this as you are the one deciding what is ok and what not. However just remember to measure the days with and without against one another. One bad day doesn't loose the battle. Stand strong and don't worry. Just keep fighting.

Hi Virtue/Vice,
                       Yes I want to reset, but I don't think I can do a backdate reset. Yes Now I am starting to maintain a spread sheet. It's a very Good Idea !!!

Thank u...

Ages 30-39 / Re: when should I reset.
« on: April 29, 2016, 04:46:46 AM »
Ye, its Possible. its an immature ejaculation. when sexually excited and with PIED. And may be when you are near to Natural Discharge of excess semen in you body when body decides naturally.

Ages 30-39 / when should I reset.
« on: April 26, 2016, 02:51:50 AM »
Hi Friends,
                   I was going well with no PMO. But on the 52nd night. I watched it. I didn't masturbated to it but I had an ejaculation.
Then next morning I watched 3 to 4 movies of double XX rating. Should I reset my counter. I have not done it since then.

I was thinking not to do it since I ejaculated and I didn't masturbated at that time. what do you guys say?

I feel I have relapsed though...

Thank you.

Porn Addiction / Re: Porn fantasy and masturbation
« on: April 10, 2016, 10:34:10 AM »
Hi npod33
                        Today is my 50th day without PMO. I was actually considering some penial exercises for increase of girth and length will that be a problem.

Thanks ZDC..

Gabbe a big God Bless and Thank You.  :)
You mean a lot to all those whom you are helping and still helping out...

Porn Addiction / Re: I keep failing, that's exacly how i feel
« on: April 10, 2016, 10:29:29 AM »
I was wondering if you can have a regular Fun / Physical work out planned so that You may reach the Goal.
this is just to trick your brain from getting back to the Old behaviour . may be watching Good Old Movies before going to bed. Or anything Else.
Or Involving in some charitable work like, visiting home for the orphans or special children philanthropic which may involve spending your time with your self involved in it. Or volunteering. A regular meeting of all your friends planning road trips/game of pool in parlour or club.
as I said all these to replace it with some thing that you can count on till you reach your goal...   ;)  :)


Ages 30-39 / Re: I am new in good need of accountability.
« on: February 22, 2016, 11:54:05 AM »
I am feeling very happy about it. Specially to see that we all our in need of coming out of this habit. and we are helping each other with care.

Ages 30-39 / Re: I am new in good need of accountability.
« on: February 22, 2016, 07:12:11 AM »
   Thanks a million for this reply. I feel connected plus supported, I believe I could make it with support.
Yes, I have strategy. every time I relapse I make strategies but then I relapse. so far I have never been accountable.
This itself is one of my strategy. I would be accountable to you.

My strategy as follows.
since I am from a religious back ground.
. Every morning I pray and meditate every morning, may be 30 to 40 mins.
when I come back from work I do 30 to 40 mins of exercise.
Then I plan to study, as I am from IT background, then dinner and then before going to bed I again review myday.
I am staying in a PG with a room mate. He is a boy. I straight. to be fairly open.

After going through one video I have realised is that most of the time I have relapsed because I could not fight the withdrawal symptoms.
I have realised that I need to fight in this area.

I need help to make strategies. I see that you have been quite some time here.

What is the full form of PMO.

My Goal in Life is to be Fully Human and Fully Alive. To enjoy the inner freedom to be completely me as it may intended to be.


Success Stories / Re: Age 42 - 128 days no PMO
« on: February 21, 2016, 07:44:47 PM »
its smart decision to cut off MO completely during reboot. what you did with fantasy is edging and it is the worst part of porn addiction as it contributes to training your brain to get artificially aroused the most. losing social anxiety and climbing self confidence are great gains.

you are doing very well overall. couple of MO sessions, 1 relapse and few fantasies are better than 274 straight days of PMO.

    how to set the meter which comes below the post.

Ages 30-39 / I am new in good need of accountability.
« on: February 21, 2016, 04:41:18 PM »
Hi all,
            I am 31 yrs male no and unmarried, I am on porn from last 10 to 12 years almost.
I am not happy about my-self. I need help. Just last saturday I relapsed.
I want to keep a 30 days no PMO goal. to start with.
I need some to chat with or blog so that regularly I am in touch and go one day at a time.

Please get in touch with me asap. It would be a great delight. If I am missing any details then please let me know about it.

Success Stories / Re: Succesful intercourse with a new girlfriend
« on: February 21, 2016, 04:31:40 PM »
Your story is encouraging bro..thanks...

Ages 30-39 / My first day at reboot nation
« on: February 21, 2016, 07:20:17 AM »
Hi Gaeb,
                  thanks, a Big God Bless to you.
This is my first day at reboot. Just yesterday I had a relapse after 16 days.
I find this blogging very helpful as on open confession as to what we are going through. I am greatly helped by knowing about the withdrawal symptoms.
I need more motivation on this area. when the symptoms attack when the struggle is on for re-wiring.
Gaeb you're my one inspiration. I have been in to this from last 10 years. But I am not daily scheduled watcher.
On a average for last 10 years my relapse would take place on the 10th or 15th day, Just 2 times so far I was 3 months off from porn.

Yes I need help still, What my night mare is would I ever get to be Fully Human Fully Alive.

Would reading daily this blog for some time help. Apart from FAP.


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