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Success Stories / My story so far/ needing some advice
« on: March 09, 2018, 01:32:42 AM »
  Hi so here’s my story, about a year back I decided I was going to give up porn for good after failed attempts with multiple women. At first I had no idea what was goin on with me I was confused/ angry at myself that I couldn’t perform I had serious anxiety issues. I finally stumbled upon this website and found out what my problem was, it was too much pixels not enough real interaction. I had changed my brain in a bad way. As soon as I figured out it was from porn i immediately stopped everything all together, no p or m, just straight hard mode. It was very difficult for me at first but eventually got easier and easier as I progressed.

  About 4 months pass and I feel amazing, my sex drive was back, I was getting hard just looking at women it was the best. I finally met a girl on a dating website. I wanted to take it slow at first because I still had this thought in my head that I wasn’t ready just yet for sex. So me and this girl take it slow at first, just kissing and making out for about the first 2 weeks of getting to know each other. Finally the day comes, we both wanted to have sex, I was ready, I was feelin confident. Boom I got hard everything was cool other than a little premature ejaculation, so it didn’t last as long as I wanted. The girl was still satisfied and she said she liked having sex with me, it made me feel great about myself.

  Moving on, I end up dating this girl, the sex was great for the first couple months of the relationship other than I wasn’t able to last long only if I slowed it down a little bit. About the 5month period into the relationship I watched porn for the first time again, I don’t know what sparked it but I just got curious bc I thought I was healed and watching it one time wouldn’t hurt. I was wrong. I didn’t get severely addicted again but I would pump about once a week maybe twice, I was still able to have good sex with my girlfriend, but I started thinking differently when we would have sex like imagining other girls, it would turn me on more. So through out all of this I had a couple flat lines, and my girlfriend would wonder why I couldn’t have sex or why my dick wouldn’t work. I told her we just needed to take a little break from sex and I would be better in a week.

  About a year into the relationship, we were fighting a lot and didn’t have sex as much as we used to. Eventually this lead to us breaking up about a month ago. Since the breakup I have no watched any p and have not m yet either. I feel like I may not be 100 percent because I was experiencing pme and my d was not always 100 percent erect about 75 percent I would say. But here is my question, I have recently met this new girl and she is absolutely in love with me and we text everyday. I’m super nervous to have sex with her because I want to impress her and last a long time and be fully erect the whole time. What should I do? I can’t tell her about my problem because it will be an immediate turn off, I’m 23 years old and most girls my age are sex fiends and they won’t stay with you unless the sex in on par every time. I’m currently just getting out of a flatline and I don’t know what I should do. If anyone has any advice I would greatly appreciate it, I don’t wanna ruin what I have with this new girl but I know she will want to have sex soon.


 

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  Hi so here’s my story, about a year back I decided I was going to give up porn for good after failed attempts with multiple women. At first I had no idea what was goin on with me I was confused/ angry at myself that I couldn’t perform I had serious anxiety issues. I finally stumbled upon this website and found out what my problem was, it was too much pixels not enough real interaction. I had changed my brain in a bad way. As soon as I figured out it was from porn i immediately stopped everything all together, no p or m, just straight hard mode. It was very difficult for me at first but eventually got easier and easier as I progressed.

  About 4 months pass and I feel amazing, my sex drive was back, I was getting hard just looking at women it was the best. I finally met a girl on a dating website. I wanted to take it slow at first because I still had this thought in my head that I wasn’t ready just yet for sex. So me and this girl take it slow at first, just kissing and making out for about the first 2 weeks of getting to know each other. Finally the day comes, we both wanted to have sex, I was ready, I was feelin confident. Boom I got hard everything was cool other than a little premature ejaculation, so it didn’t last as long as I wanted. The girl was still satisfied and she said she liked having sex with me, it made me feel great about myself.

  Moving on, I end up dating this girl, the sex was great for the first couple months of the relationship other than I wasn’t able to last long only if I slowed it down a little bit. About the 5month period into the relationship I watched porn for the first time again, I don’t know what sparked it but I just got curious bc I thought I was healed and watching it one time wouldn’t hurt. I was wrong. I didn’t get severely addicted again but I would pump about once a week maybe twice, I was still able to have good sex with my girlfriend, but I started thinking differently when we would have sex like imagining other girls, it would turn me on more. So through out all of this I had a couple flat lines, and my girlfriend would wonder why I couldn’t have sex or why my dick wouldn’t work. I told her we just needed to take a little break from sex and I would be better in a week.

  About a year into the relationship, we were fighting a lot and didn’t have sex as much as we used to. Eventually this lead to us breaking up about a month ago. Since the breakup I have no watched any p and have not m yet either. I feel like I may not be 100 percent because I was experiencing pme and my d was not always 100 percent erect about 75 percent I would say. But here is my question, I have recently met this new girl and she is absolutely in love with me and we text everyday. I’m super nervous to have sex with her because I want to impress her and last a long time and be fully erect the whole time. What should I do? I can’t tell her about my problem because it will be an immediate turn off, I’m 23 years old and most girls my age are sex fiends and they won’t stay with you unless the sex in on par every time. I’m currently just getting out of a flatline and I don’t know what I should do. If anyone has any advice I would greatly appreciate it, I don’t wanna ruin what I have with this new girl but I know she will want to have sex soon.


 

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Porn Induced Erectile Dysfunction/Delayed Ejaculation / 11 days in!
« on: December 17, 2015, 03:44:45 PM »
Hey guys just wanted to let you know what's been going on. It's currently been 11 days since the last time I pmo'd. Have noticed little change not too much yet. I've gotten MW the past couple of days which makes me happy because I haven't experienced that in a long time. I sometimes have urges to look up p but I always stop myself by doing something productive in the real world and just putting my phone down for about an hour.

Lately I've felt kinda foggy/depressed, not to sure why maybe I'm going into a flatline? Who knows. I just feel like every day is dragging on. It's kind of hard to get out of bed recently when I wake up. I feel like I could sleep in till about 3 every day lol, but I force myself to get up since I have work everyday at 9.

But I'm going to keep going on with this cause I NEED to cure myself of pied, not too sure how long it's going to take. But wish me luck on my journey, it's not been so bad so far, and I can't wait to start seeing improvements

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Ages 20-29 / I need advice! Pls help me
« on: December 06, 2015, 10:22:19 PM »
So a couple days ago I met this very beautiful girl, the best looking girl that actually likes me, the first night we met was at a party my friend threw, she needed a ride to the party so I decided to go pick her up, as soon as she got in the car it's like we clicked I felt like I could already be myself around this girl, anyway we show up to the party have a couple drinks party with friends play beer pong together, we ended up getting pretty fucked up by the end of the night, when it was time for bed we both went upstairs and had our own room and own bed, out of nowhere she touched me and then put my hand on her parts, at first I got no errection I was slightly nervous and attempted intercourse with a semi flaccid penis. I did not end up climaxing so we just cuddled for a bit then out of nowhere my penis began to get hard, we engaged in intercourse and it was great!! I was so relieved I got it hard because I've been dealin with this problem for many months now with multiple partners.


Okay that sums up the first night, we woke up in the morning I took her home, we texted all day she really seemed like she was in to me, so we eventaually ended up wanting to hang out again, I picked her up and we went back to my friends house, this night was more chill no drinking except 1 beer, the whole night was good we talked a lot had open conversations, kissed everything seemed to be going well, then we went upstairs cause we wanted to go to bed, we cuddled for a few moments then she pulled down my pants and began giving me oral, my penis stayed flaccid, it didn't not get hard what so ever not even semi, she was confused and wondered why I didn't get hard she thought it was her, that she wasn't attractive enough(which was not the case she is the hottest girl I've been with) so I told her it was because I didn't get enough sleep last night and I was hung over all day, she decided that we could just cuddle.


 I was so angry at myself I just wanted to scream and cry cause I just felt like I was fucking everything up with this goddess of a girl. I just need your guys help what should I tell or what should I do, I don't want to lose this girl right now, I know i didn't get hard because porn induced ED, she's a very open girl and talks a lot about everything and what she likes sexually and stuff like that, I'm just debated whether I should tell her the truth or if I should just avoid hanging out with her and try to stop masturbation and prob all together to recover from this embarrassing illness :/ please give me some feedback guys I really don't want to lose this girl already, it doesn't happen very often that a pretty girl comes around and is actually into me, advise would make me feel much better, today I just feel so depressed and that my penis is broken :/

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Porn Addiction / The long road to recovery
« on: December 06, 2015, 08:58:39 PM »
Hello everyone I'm new to this forum. Nice to meet you. So anyways I just recently found out that I have porn induced Ed, for many months I didn't know what was wrong with me, it seemed as if real life sexual encounters just didn't turn me on any more, I thought my penis was broken and broken forever, I've been so stressed out recently and my anxiety is really getting to me, there is nothing more embarrassing than having a beautiful lady lying next to you and decide to try and engage in intercourse but then, oh shit my penis won't get hard, then your partner gives you a look of dissatisfaction or as if it's her fault, I've gone through this about the past 5 times I've tried have intercourse with a woman. I've been watching many videos on this topic and I realized it's time to change, I can't live on like this knowing that I can't physically pleasure a woman. I'm going to try this so called no fap method and see what happens, I could really use support and tips on giving up porn for good. Looking forward for some positive feed back. Thank you

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