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Ages 20-29 / Re: morning wood
« on: August 07, 2016, 07:39:18 AM »
Thank you for the kind words!

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Ages 20-29 / morning wood
« on: August 06, 2016, 06:50:23 AM »
A lot of people seem to disagree but in my experience morning wood is a really good sign of progress...I think it defiantly means your no longer in a flatline.

When I used porn or porn substitutes my morning my wood was weak or non existent...When I did my first reboot I flatlined for almost two months (this was a very depressing time for me)...Eventually my morning wood started coming back...First it was gentle but pretty soon it was rock hard and would stay hard until I got in the shower....The return of hard morning wood definitely corresponded with a return of libido and general happiness for me...I don't believe this was a coincidence at all....It indicated to me that I was ready for sex again (which i did to great results)....

Once or twice I saw some soft porn material (escort websites, which I have a problem with)...I relapsed or came close to it....The morning after no morning wood and it would take a few days of abstinence for me to get back on track.


I guess my message is they morning wood will come back eventually and when it does it will fill you with happiness..But you still gotta stay PMO free for life the work gets easier but never stops...

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Ages 20-29 / 53 Days Hard mode yet still in Flat line....
« on: May 24, 2016, 03:17:45 AM »
Hey I guess I'm really frustrated ...I have rebooted before and I was getting very strong morning wood after only 30 days, I was having sex after 40 with no problems....But this time it's been 53 days and I'm still in a relative flatline....I'm getting like 30 percent erections in the morning thats it..........Whats going on?!!!!!!!

 >:(

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Porn Addiction / Re: Wet dreams
« on: May 01, 2016, 04:54:50 AM »
Yeah there really enjoyable.......Sometimes I don't cum either but still have dreams about sexual fantasies.............Don't worry if there aren't wet or not just enjoy them......I think it's like your bodies natural version of porn

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Porn Addiction / Re: Is it normal? FLATLINE
« on: April 29, 2016, 04:41:48 AM »
Hang in there man.....I'm in the exactly the same position as you and it's almost been 30 days.......I get terrible anxiety about the flatline and it's upsetting when I see hot girls and feel nothing......It will end eventually just hang it there........Last time I rebooted my libido didn't come back till day 44 .............

I just keep telling myself I know the cause of my anxiety and I know it won't last forever!

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Porn Addiction / Re: Wet dreams
« on: April 29, 2016, 04:37:31 AM »
1. I think they are a natural product of our subconscious.....There very enjoyable and illustrate are deepest desires perhaps.

2. I agree with what you said I think the cum has to get out some way.....This is how our Brian relieves itself

3.I had one last night and the night before

4.NEVER of course not.....You can't control your dreams.

I actually think a good sign that our Brian is getting back to normal.........When I used to watch porn and fapp all the time I never had wet dreams.


Enjoy them don't feel guilty and don't chase them with anything else


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Ages 20-29 / Re: 26, 40 days no PMO, NOT a porn addict, chronic ED.
« on: April 29, 2016, 04:24:57 AM »
1.This is for you dude......I think it's for every guy........Even if your not addicted to Porn, abstaining masturbation makes your erections harder and you better in bed.

.Hey dude all I can do is share my thoughts gained from my own experiences...........I've currently gone almost 30 days without masturbation but I'm still in a flatline (which is real scary and really bothers me)..........I do know however from my last successful reboot that eventually (last Time I think it was day 44 but it's different for everyone) you suddenly start getting morning wood again and week by week it gets stronger and stronger and your libido comes back..........

Last time I rebooted I was so depressed and almost ready to give up and my flatline seemed to last so long but then all of a sudden things started working again.......

I personally would not recommend any masturbation ever (sounds extreme).....I believe masturbation can be a slippery slop back to porn or porn substitutes and I'm not convinced it will awaken your libido........Your libido will Awaken itself just hang in there!!!!





You say you suffer from ED and masturbation in my opinion won't help as it's still artificial stimulation (no women involved)........


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When you do feel confident and "hard" enough you should totally start meeting and fucking real women......Your a foreign guy where ever you are....Girls love this! Try dating apps you'll be surprised who you meet.

You don't need feelings to rewire you just need a women who wants to fuck you. Don't be so sentimental man your 26....Love will find you one day but in the meantime you should use the gifts god gave you (your body) and have fun....



3. I don't know you but I wanna send my love your way.......Sometimes this whole thing (rebooting) can be so lonely and though......But there is so much joy waiting for you and me both once the flatline is over and things get back to "normal".









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Success Stories / Re: How I quit porn
« on: February 16, 2016, 02:41:13 PM »
Fair play man....I wish you all the best ! Your taking this seriously , I admire your bravery!

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Ages 20-29 / Re: My First attempt at sharing this with anyone
« on: November 18, 2015, 05:52:55 AM »
I've made it to 11 days now which is great.......Last night and this morning I found myself edging and fantasizing quite abit to pictures on an escort site..........So I just installed k9 web blocker........http://www1.k9webprotection.com/..........It's free easy to install and you can customize it to block any sites with sexual content................You have to keep fighting your addiction as sometimes after a week of no pmo, when your feeling better, you start to forget you have a problem.


Allso anyone else taking part in the nofapwar on reddit?

https://www.reddit.com/r/NoFapWar/

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Success Stories / Re: CURED all of my Sexual Dysfunctions
« on: November 15, 2015, 04:28:18 PM »
Amazing congrats////.......I know I can get there too!

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Ages 20-29 / Re: Trying to give up tantric massage
« on: November 15, 2015, 04:25:08 PM »
Hey man you got to be stronger and cut that stuff out because it will hamper your recovery and even extend your flatline.........I used to find myself on escort websites, the reviews clients left of the girls were arousing, this actually hampered my recovery because it was triggering the same reactions in my Brian as watching porn ....This is just another p substitute.....

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Ages 20-29 / Should I reset my counter?
« on: November 06, 2015, 07:54:36 AM »
 :-\

I just m'od ......I was reading something online and started to fantasise and one thing led to another....No porn though?Should I restart my counter? What are your thoughts?

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Ages 20-29 / Re: My First attempt at sharing this with anyone
« on: November 02, 2015, 11:39:37 AM »
Will do…

Every day I go nofapp I'm going to add 3 euro to my account…And then spend it on something nice in a month.

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Ages 20-29 / Re: My First attempt at sharing this with anyone
« on: November 01, 2015, 02:35:07 PM »
I think so?……... I think I just succumbed to it……. :(

Not proud of this……my own fault was edging all day looking at pictures(not porn) and fantasising……I really need to cut this out

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Ages 20-29 / Re: My First attempt at sharing this with anyone
« on: November 01, 2015, 01:39:14 PM »
Relapsed……………..I will be stronger this time

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Ages 20-29 / Re: My First attempt at sharing this with anyone
« on: October 29, 2015, 06:40:24 AM »
Thanks man….I'm hitting the gym this morning!

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Ages 20-29 / Re: My First attempt at sharing this with anyone
« on: October 28, 2015, 06:22:37 PM »
Dammit!!!

I came across some pictures on the computer ,,,,…………Tomorrows a new…..day…..I didn't watch porn but there were pictures I came across online….Reset…………

Guys resist edging its a trap….I must learn from this

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Ages 20-29 / Re: Let's get back to a healthy sex life!
« on: October 28, 2015, 05:42:22 AM »
Thats really brave of your to admit your problems to another person…I don't think I could ever do that…I didn't even tell my therapist about this stuff

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Ages 20-29 / Re: My First attempt at sharing this with anyone
« on: October 28, 2015, 05:40:50 AM »
Day 4

I had strong urges to MO last night, I guess I was fantasising a bit in my head while lying in bed, got super horny, but I didn't touch myself I just tried breath deeply till the urge went away and think of Puppies ……...I woke with a bit of morning wood this morning which feels great………..Got a date tomorrow with a real pretty gal…Going to a soccer game on Friday ….Feeling good

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Ages 20-29 / Re: My First attempt at sharing this with anyone
« on: October 26, 2015, 08:53:03 AM »
Also man sometimes I go to the cinema alone (it's actually more fun to go alone sometimes because you can just go whenever you like)…..I started doing this recently because it takes me out of the house and away from my laptop during the evening…This avoids temptation but it's also so relaxing….I usually roll myself a joint  and smoke it before going inside the theatre…Lately I've seen Sicario, Macbeth and the Lobster all awesome movies!

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Ages 20-29 / Re: The Death of an Enemy (The Birth of an Ally)
« on: October 26, 2015, 08:46:12 AM »
Stay strong man…You've already done four weeks which is amazing……Go for a walk breath in some of that warm autumn air…Or else go to the cinemas see a movie...

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Ages 20-29 / Re: My First attempt at sharing this with anyone
« on: October 26, 2015, 08:40:47 AM »
Thanks for getting in touch man………….Yeah I think I understand what your saying…….I'm trying to stay positive at the moment and not worry too much about women…I'm avoiding going out to clubs and drinking less…It's not so bad to give these things a break for a while……I just keep reminding myself that I will have a great sex life again once I'm better…..In my experience after a week and a half your morning wood starts to come back and you feel more manly again.

You should write a journal about your experiences it'll help.

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Ages 20-29 / Re: **Accountability Partner Requests**
« on: October 24, 2015, 03:40:41 PM »
I'm hew here….I already had a cathartic experience writing my first journal…I was hoping someone would like to be my accountabilty partner? Cheers  good luck to everyone

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Ages 20-29 / Re: At this point I hope it's PIED
« on: October 24, 2015, 03:34:44 PM »
Congratulations on your journey so far………..Whether you restart your counter or not is totally up to you, as there was no porn don't go to hard on yourself….One thing I will say is learn from this….What where the factors that led to your mo?, "being lazy and sitting around" ….Try write a list of things you did that may have led you to mo and in future avoid them…….For me I can't sit around in my house in my dressing gown (i end up touching myself) so when I get up I get dressed straight away

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Ages 20-29 / My First attempt at sharing this with anyone
« on: October 24, 2015, 03:06:17 PM »
Day 1

I'm a 24 year old graduate…..………I'm here because my pmo addiction has given me ed in the past…Last year I was able to go months and months with out PMO, but when I had my college exams I was stressed out and started masturbating again….This summer I went a month with no porn or masturbation it was amazing I felt more horny and attracted to real women….I want to feel like that again….Currently I keep going a week or so with no porn and then on day seven I always cave in….I hate myself for this…..I caved in yesterday….I'm currently flatlining which I hate, I find it so frustrating……..I'm actually quite confident talking to girls but lately I don't bother because I feel that I'd wouldn't be able to get it up if I went home with them….I feel like my "killer instinct" is gone, like I'm a hunter with no spear….I can chase well but I've nothing to strike my prey with (awful analogy)……..Anyways I know if I stick with this I will get my sexual power back……….

If anyone wants to talk about their experience let me know….I've seen a therapist in the past and not even mentioned this to them….Talking does help.

I met a girl lately there's alot of chemistry between us…………I'm just anxious around spending too much time with her because eventually she will start to wonder why I'm not trying to initiate sex with her…This is so frustrating….I wish I could ask her to give me a month to sort my shit out.

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