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Porn Addiction / Re: Anyone out there living with a foot fetish?
« on: August 26, 2015, 09:18:10 AM »
Then you do have problem my friend,especially if like you said it wasnt induced by porn. Now I do remember reading on yourbrainrebalanced some cases where some guy said only footjobs could make him cum. He said vaginal,anal and oral sex felt empty and that hands were useless. I would recommned you to go have chat with sex therapist or psychologist. Im sure they can help you. Of course youre gonna need strong will to rewire also,but Im sure you can do it!

Porn Addiction / Re: what happend?
« on: August 26, 2015, 03:30:22 AM »
Their servers must be overrun.

Porn Addiction / Re: Anyone out there living with a foot fetish?
« on: August 25, 2015, 12:38:27 AM »
In my humble opinion,in a way I agree with Dani. As long as you dont find having some fun with her feet more important to you than having some pussy fucking,I think youre fine.

I myself also have a fetish(I didnt watch its porn or had it induced by porn),I forgot its direct name but its where I liked to lick or eat something from my ex GF tits. Like putting some nutella or marmelade and licking it off them. It really turned me on and my GF liked it also. But it never went deep or took over,we did it like 2 times a month. It wasnt necessary part of intercourse for me and Id also concentrate on sex Id be having later. So I can definitely do without it and perform without it,but if opportunity came,sure Im in.

I dont think its ultra sick and definitely not inducing nor mental or physical damage to neither me nor woman. I mean on scale of 1-10 for fetish danger and sickness (1 being non existant and 10 being way out of anything reasonable) Id give it 1.5 max.

Porn Addiction / Re: Questioning handjobs...
« on: August 23, 2015, 05:25:11 PM »
After only getting off by hand for most of time,both dicks nerves and brain get used to that sensation so basically its the way your body gets satisfied. So when it comes to pussy,which is completely different from hand by both warmth,moisture,tightness your nerve gets confused. He is like "well this doesnt feel like rough,dry hand.Its not what I used to ejaculate so I will stop erection."

Basically its not sensitivity brain got used to,so you need to rewire to real deal. Honestly pussy is divine,and its really shameful to waste dick on hand when you can have something much better. Pussy gives both physical AND emotional pleasure.
All in all just stop jerking and your brain will slowly but surely loosen wiring process to hand. Good luck mate!

Porn Addiction / Re: What day?
« on: August 17, 2015, 03:46:12 AM »
Abdi,it depends how deep into reboot you are. For example if you went 120 days hard mode,then you definitely didnt lose all that progress you made. But if you only went like 3 weeks,chances are your old pathways will return full force. Good luck and try to hold on!

Porn Addiction / If anyone really has bad day just jump in my inbox
« on: August 16, 2015, 03:30:02 PM »
Thanks to people which answered my ask on previous post. Nice to have company.

Now if anyone has suicidal thoughts or waves of serious depression,be free to jump in my inbox. We share the same pain of reboot and since in following days I will be often on forum you can have someone to talk to.

I myself relapsed after 33 days and I feel bad after such an effort. But we must push forward. For sake of our mental and physical health we mustnt give in and go for as long as it takes to reach those 3 months free of porn.

Ok,I see you are religious person. Rebooting aside I will tell this.

Gary Wilson a man who started all this,an atheist,a man who himself clearly stated is NOT anti porn and anti sexual diversity,discovered true reason behind our porn addiction,and as expected he explained it to us in very scientific sense why porn causes ED. He doesnt tell rebooters what to do with women after they healed from their addiction. He also stated he nor this project is a moralist compass. That is up to us as individuals to make.

Some of rebooters take on religion as path of life after reboot. Now Ive read both Bible and Quran as parts of philosophy classes,interesting books as fantasy stories. Well,you can follow their ideals,or you can follow scientific life perspective which creator of YBOP himself uses,your choice. Each year we find out more and more about reality.

Now if community of doctors,physicist and astrologist dont understand some particle reaction,does that mean god of some religion did it? You wanna play this game? Was it Jesus,Allah,Buddha,Zeus,Apollo,Odin,Shiva,Jehovah,Amaterasu,Anansi,Yamato,Brahma,Freya,Ishtar?

Because here is the list of things from the past that men of all cultures gave credit to gods because they couldnt explain it,*lists 1000 and 1000 of things that modern physicians proved to be particle reaction*.

God is a reciting entity,pocket of scientific ignorance. Pocket is getting smaller and smaller by each year,each month. Live on with comfort of poetry of religions. There are mysterious deeds of some entity,Im not gonna set new frontiers and confront them.

But hey be free to pray to any of those Ive counted as remedy. There are plenty more.

People on your brain rebalanced HIGHLY recommend Shea butter. It does magic to softness and blood flow of the skin on penis.

Porn Addiction / Re: Root Cause of Addiction
« on: August 15, 2015, 03:13:38 PM »
The idea that if you keep doing it,you will see better tomorrow.

Porn Addiction / Re: Behavior Change
« on: August 15, 2015, 10:56:39 AM »
Great work buddy!

Great work Rix,you did great!

Porn Addiction / Re: Chat with urologist.
« on: August 15, 2015, 07:50:31 AM »
Well be free to go hard mode 90 days and empty via wet dreams then.

Porn Addiction / Re: Chat with urologist.
« on: August 15, 2015, 01:18:20 AM »
This urologist is completely wrong- there is zero evidence for a physical need to release semen through masturbation

There are no evidence that moderate masturbation alone causes any physical issues. Masturbation to porn is different story. I mean so many other species have been known to masturbate. Lizards masturbate,monkeys masturbate,turtles masturbate,elephants masturbate,dolphins masturbate etc.

They can still have sex with female no problem because their dopamine levels dont get deformed by fantasies which drift of from real deal stuff.

Porn Addiction / Re: Chat with urologist.
« on: August 14, 2015, 02:48:38 PM »
He didnt say anything about wet dreams. I just know its important for body to keep making new semen.

Porn Addiction / Any atheist rebooters here?
« on: August 14, 2015, 09:01:39 AM »
If you are,add me on buddy list so we can private chat about all kinds of stuff and kill time during reboots. 

Porn Addiction / Re: Chat with urologist.
« on: August 13, 2015, 03:23:27 PM »
Yeah,it sort of sums up to once a month cycle.

But he also told me this when we finished exam..
"You know I was 21 like you,back in 1977. I also masturbated like 4-5 times a week. Difference though was I only had fantasies of real life everyday sex with everyday women. You know,you couldve barely gotten any porn in our country and erotic magazines were a bit expensive. At the time we would all mostly use girls from our college as fap material,fantasizing about their boobs,asses and legs. If we fantasized about sex it would be a nice blowjob or classic vaginal and cumming inside of the girl. That was top for us,most of us knew for anal,but it didnt sound appetizing for most of us guys. But these days you boys need some really crazy stuff to get off. No wonder we are getting generation of sexually defected. "

Porn Addiction / Chat with urologist.
« on: August 13, 2015, 02:02:13 PM »
I was at urologist. Told him by the way that Im doing this reboot. I told him my whole story,how I ignored real life women and now can only get hard masturbating watching porn and how Ive been 32 days off porn and masturbating. He told me he thinks this is definitely great progress for my mental health and promotes people ending porn addiction and enjoying real life women. Though when I told him I stopped masturbating full stop he got worried.

He told me"I do recommend you to stop porn,but masturbation in moderation,which is 2 times a week is very healthy for both your prostate and testicles. But since you were heavy porn masturbator by your own words,you still need to give your boy some rest. So Id highly recommend you during your reboot to masturbate every 25th day from now on. Use plenty of lube and be very gentle about it. Your body needs to keep making fresh semen. Also use ordinary fantasies about everyday girls while doing it. You will make whole sexual channel in your body ready for it."

So I listened to him. Since I was over 25 days into reboot today I lubricated myself and super slowly masturbated thinking about how I used to kiss my ex gf neck. I dumped the biggest load of my life. It almost felt as good as my first orgasm achieved by sex. I was also rock hard while doing it,so I surely made some progress. So Im settled until another session for 25 days. Gonna keep up and stay far away from porn for sure.

First of all, yes they would help you to rewire to real life. The issue is that you may create a new problem where pretty Jessica from work just doesn't cut it when compared to the groups of hookers you could choose from at a variety of brothels. It's also interesting to note that brothels are themed similarly to porn genres, you have asians, africans, matures, transgenders etc, so it might not be entirely beneficial.

I would still consider idea of man not being able to achieve erection with normal woman because she cant complete all wishes hooker will as something separate from porn. In context this kind of man DOES get pleasure from womans body,which is main goal of PIED reboot.

But I definitely agree being fully dependable on hookers is bad.Its surely better finding a horny girlfriend who is ready to make your sex wishes come true,so you dont ever need porn to achieve your fantasies.

Porn Addiction / Re: 6 days in - Weird pains
« on: August 12, 2015, 01:43:02 AM »
I also had blue balls on like 5th day and it hurt through whole day. Didnt have it after it.

Porn Addiction / Re: 24 hour water fast
« on: August 11, 2015, 11:49:33 AM »
I did 56 hours of fasting+24 hours of juicing. Only thing I noticed was that my piss was extremely yellow and foggy,probably clearing out toxins. Nothing changed in my libido or my PIED. Though I did sleep a bit easier after fasting.

Porn Addiction / Re: This is so strange when you are NoFapper
« on: August 11, 2015, 07:42:53 AM »
And one of most essential things. I realized that all that time I trully was only a voyeur in all those scenes,looking through cameraman lens. I realized I never imagined myself in point of the view of guy fucking the girl.

In every fantasy before starting reboots Id just imagine myself like guy just watching people having sex. It would be like guy on video telling me"you are pathetic,but I will allow you to watch me doing her,while you really get nothing from it".

Porn Addiction / This is so strange when you are NoFapper
« on: August 10, 2015, 04:28:24 PM »
Here I am 5 weeks of no porn and jerking. My penis and phsycial shape started improving quite well. On the other side,it seems mentally I havent done any noteworthy progress. I still get almost non existent excitement from real life women and interactions with them. Guess dopamine rebalancing is the toughest in this whole story after all.

The thing that really feels strange is how when you hang around guys you keep seeing them getting very aroused looking at girls,talking about all sorts of sexual activity. Everybody around me has quite sexual life. When you NoFap,you realize how faaaar you went out of this whole interaction. You realize while guys talk like their own sex experiences and enjoying women and interacting with them and having sex with them and fantasizing about them. Meanwhile youd think only about your porn scenes and women in porn.

As time goes by,Im really beginning to realize how deep I went into porn world that I completely lost track of any real life sex interactions. Realizing how I dont get a stiffy or an ounce of excitement rush when I see smoking hot latina woman in topless walking around beach right in front of me really shows what porn can do to you as male....

Yep sensitivity does start coming back. My whole penis used to be numb to any touch.Foreskin and frenulum-most sensitive ones felt like touching elbow skin.
But now Im almost 5 weeks into reboot and I gotta say all parts are getting its sensitivity back.

Point of reboot is removing porn and coming back to real women and getting pleasure from them. 

The kind of woman youre going to have intercourse with is NOT part of reboot story. Its a story taking place long after you reboot. After you get your libido towards real life women pussies its fully your option what kind of woman you gonna pick. It can be any kind of woman. Whore,slut,virgin,geek,starlet,businesswoman,punk,rasta,artist,botanist,lawyer,cook,milf,teen.

It really doesnt fucking matter as long you get off with pussy and not pixels on screen...

Not all of us rebooters are practicing theologies and following them,so this insight could be seen through religious prism,not objective one. Im not saying people cant pray to their entities and follow ideas of theirs. Im just saying some of us dont need them.

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